What I've learned from yesterday and today is that my mother is a ******* *****. Which is why I should probably avoid talking to her from now on. My father also annoyed me last night. My mother also got annoyed at my father last night, saying he doesn't help anybody but himself. But truth be told, my parents are not very nice people.
I never really spend that my time with my dad anyway. He's kind of a jerk. My parents, as far as I'm concerned, can go and **** themselves. They say that anything that doesn't kill you makes you stronger. And if yesterday didn't kill me, I'm sure nothing will. All that could happen now is that the depression that I went through yesterday could cause me to commit suicide. I'm sorry but my mother just went and annoyed me again just now. This morning my mother has been a ***** again. She's put me down just now, and I'm sure it wasn't voluntary, but my self-esteem has suffered because of it. This kind of thing makes me wish for certain other things, which I'll get more into in my next questions on YA.
How do I not let people's words get me down anymore? Particularly my mothers?
2016-11-11 6:11 am
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2016-11-11 7:15 am
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usually mean people have had a bad experience....maybe have a talk with your mom and talk it out. it's hurting your mental state. don't take her words seriously. maybe if it's true then take it seriously but if it's about bringing you down and bullying you, let those words slide off your mind. maybe saying all that helps her release her emotion. you should know you are your own person. you don't have to listen to other people's thoughts. i know you are strong. :) maybe avoid getting your mom into conversation about stuff if she will annoy you about it. you are unique and awesome! people should accept you for who you are. :) good luck! i hope your parents will calm down. don't dwell your time thinking about why they said such things. you will be happier if you don't. :) my parents get really mean when they're mad and say mean things about me which aren't true, but now i laugh it off and convince myself i shouldn't get mad at myself. i don't like getting the effect. be positive, there's positives to everything! :) :D
2016-11-11 6:13 am
shut up u fat bich
2016-11-13 1:55 am
not much you can do about it unless youre lucky enough to be over 18 and then you can move out
2016-11-11 8:20 am
Avoiding the problem will only cause damage to yourself and youll end up regretting the past
2016-11-11 6:21 am
By realising that your mother is in worse pain than you. People who don't resolve their emotional issues, will often project it onto other innocent souls. The solution to that is to love yourself more, not less, regardless of what anyone says to your face. That takes time, patience, commitment - and when you do that, gradually you will find it becomes easier to let her words have less impact on you. Even to the point where it feels like water off a duck's back, as the saying goes.
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