My boyfriend says hes too busy and he s afraid he won t give me the attention like before so hes breaking up with me?

2016-11-09 2:09 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me Monday and said that he has a lot on his plate and so we can t continue the relationship because he s afraid I won t get the attention like first time. Before that he was always distant and I use to talk to him about how communication is good in a relationship and that i feel us getting distant, now he came out rightly and says he doesn t feel like he is in a relationship anymore because he is busy with his life, however i notice him taking a lot of pics for his dp on whatsapp and posting on Facebook and also online chatting on whatsapp yet he says he has no time for a deep relationship. Because i was a little upset about this and he realized he said "ok lets stay together, lets give it one more shot" but in my heart i feel he doesnt really want to stay because he is not talking to me much. So I called him and asked him if he really wants to go and he seemed to have gotten annoyed and said "I told you that everything is okay" . but I just feel he really wants to go. I thought he would fight for our relationship. He also keeps avoiding conversation about our almost break up, he keeps saying "i dont want to talk about it, please" What do you all think? Can someone break up with you because they are too busy?

回答 (4)

2016-11-09 4:20 pm
Yes, but I think he has another girl he's more interested in. SOrry to say that but it's true.
2016-11-09 2:21 pm
He just wants to move on. Accept it
2016-11-09 2:19 pm
Posting pics and chatting online is VASTLY different to a deep relationship
The fact you need to keep asking if this is what he wants etc is whats killed the relationship
he wants something easy and carefree, not deep and always needing "to talk"

What ever the reason he wants out, he DOES want out
why be with someone and make them be with you when you know deep down he doesnt want this?
He is waiting on you being fed up and walking away, he tried ending it and you brow beat him into trying yet again.
you are wasting both of your time here
2016-11-09 2:16 pm
Sorry, but this is most likely an excuse. He probably just doesn't enjoy being in the relationship anymore :S Might not be the case, but it seems highly probable.. good luck

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