How do I ask out this hot guy?

2016-10-26 5:38 pm

回答 (3)

2016-10-26 5:48 pm
DO NOT do Hints... guys are too STUPID to figure them out.

The Biggest Mistake Guys and Girls make with each other is to think
they have too USE WORDS to get a message across.
Most Guys Suck At Conversations and
Most Girls Think, It’s Always Up To The Guy, To Make The First Move.

DO NOT USE WORDS…Take baby Steps (girls have a way of Melting a Guy)

The following is information, you will need one day:
(for this Person or the next)

INVITATIONS and ASKING for a Date are the same thing, but an invitation is easier to offer, rather than ask for a date.
Writing a note and handing it to them or having someone deliver it to them, will be okay.
Most invitations are in WRITTEN FORM. (add ph# so now They have it)

Tell Them where you will be on a certain day and at a certain time.
Let Them know They are welcome to join you if they have the time.

EXAMPLE: "I'm going for ice cream after school/work at (location),
you can join me if you're not busy... My Treat"

YOU WON'T HAVE TO FEEL EMBARRASSED if They decline.
It was just an invitation, NO BIG DEAL.

HOW TO BE WITH SOMEONE; ONE on ONE
Make a wager (bet) with the person you want to spend time with.
Lose that bet to them, INTENTIONALLY.
The wager should be something that puts you together alone and
away from everyone you know.
Make the wager something you can afford and non threatening
or too suggestive.
(an ice cream cone, a milk shake, a coffee, even washing a car)

EXAMPLE: "I'll bet you an ICE CREAM SUNDAE, I can say
the alphabet backwards faster than you."
Then LOSE the bet to Them and take Them for an ice cream sundae.
(enjoy your Date)

TO HOLD THEIR HAND
(you DO NOT have to be on a date, you just have to be near Them )
When you have been with Them for awhile and you are side by side (walking, standing or sitting) gently take Their hand and Say: "Can I borrow this for a little bit? I Promise to take care of it and return it in awhile”.
They will smile and probably be Impressed and Flattered. If They flinch and pull away, chances are it’s a REACTION, NOT REJECTION.
Smile and give Them something of yours as deposit/collateral and Let Them know you want it back when you return Them, Their hand.

Your biggest FEARS are NOT knowing What to SAY or
How to do Something.
It's like taking a test. It's NOT so scary, once you know the answers.
Driving is NOT so scary, once you're behind the wheel a few times.
Same with the Opposite Sex.
Practice and Experience equals, "PIECE OF CAKE".

Take Baby Steps and Just Let It ALL BLEND IN.

Every BF/GF Relationship that you see, happened because
ONE OF THEM took a chance and spoke up

If it scares you to take these steps, keep in mind YOU'RE SCARED ANYWAY.
Also if some other STRANGER gets Their attention, you'll wish you had done SOMETHING.

CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding. It's about NOT BEING AFRAID,
to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.

After you get Accepted or Rejected, YOU WILL "Quit"
Torturing yourself with Worry and Curiosity.
2016-10-26 5:41 pm
Just give him "hints" that are extremely obvious to lure him in. Then let him know when you are free and things you like to do.
2016-10-26 5:39 pm
like this: "hey want to hangout?"

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