One time I bought a box of delicious Oreos for everyone to take.. they only left me two. But a few days later she would get mad at me for not asking to use her perfume that morning.
And the reason she said she got mad was how double standard I am being, when other times she said anything she buys is for everybody. Which that the spray is still full (barely used). I've got mad because it seems like she's being double standard like a similar situation as the Oreos..
What are your thought on the matter??
Double standard?? Between Mother and Daughter.?
2016-10-14 6:08 am
回答 (4)
2016-10-14 7:01 am
Different strokes for different folks.
The solution is to never expect generosity or "fairness" when you provide something for everybody to share. They probably won't return the favor. However, if you actually bake the cookies yourself you'll have a better chance of being appreciated. (You can buy ready-to-bake cookie dough in flat, refrigerated packages at the grocery store. They taste fine, and they're a lot less work and mess. Just get rid of the evidence …)
You might as well apologize and promise to ask her the next time you want to use something of hers. That's all she expects from you, really. Sometimes it's just better to act as if it was all a misunderstanding that can be swept under the rug, rather than argue about "injustice".
The solution is to never expect generosity or "fairness" when you provide something for everybody to share. They probably won't return the favor. However, if you actually bake the cookies yourself you'll have a better chance of being appreciated. (You can buy ready-to-bake cookie dough in flat, refrigerated packages at the grocery store. They taste fine, and they're a lot less work and mess. Just get rid of the evidence …)
You might as well apologize and promise to ask her the next time you want to use something of hers. That's all she expects from you, really. Sometimes it's just better to act as if it was all a misunderstanding that can be swept under the rug, rather than argue about "injustice".
2016-10-14 6:30 am
Nah man... you bought the orreos for everyone to have. Even if they did only leave 2.
Your mum probably didn't buy that perfume for everyone, it is hers.
That's the difference.
Your mum probably didn't buy that perfume for everyone, it is hers.
That's the difference.
2016-10-14 6:22 am
It was pretty shitty of them to only leave you two Oreos, however you really should have asked to use her perfume. Perfume is expensive, and it is hers - she didn't offer it to you; you did offer the cookies to everyone, and they were just greedy piglets.
Next time, take your share of cookies before letting everyone else take theirs, and ask your mom for a spritz of perfume.
Next time, take your share of cookies before letting everyone else take theirs, and ask your mom for a spritz of perfume.
2016-10-14 8:57 pm
i think you should be thankful your mom is still around, wish mine was, youre lucky
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