Why do men love their wives more than their own blood children?
2016-10-12 4:55 pm
Wife has in when the man remarries and not related to his blood children. I understand that the love is equal of a woman and their children because the man loves her and he made a child together with her, but remarried to a woman that isn t the biological mother of his children is different? Its hard to explain. My dad cares about his new wife than he does me. We barely had a relationship since she moved in and he married her. I can tell in the way he acts towards me. I don t live with her just visit on the weekend, but I don t anymore. Should I just disown my dad and moved on? Sadly, I m not allowed to live or stay at his house but her son can which he s like 28.
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2016-10-12 5:44 pm
As a father and a husband, I think you're incorrect. If something happened with my wife, and I married a second wife, I might TELL her that she's #1 in my life to keep the peace, but I am 100% certain that I will always love my (now adult) children more than anyone else in the world.
2016-10-12 5:43 pm
He doesn't love you or care for you any less, he just needs her particular kind of loving in his life right now. You don't sound like a young child, so he knows you don't need raising, that's done. Your dad is a man who is desperate for romantic, sexual love and affection. Middle aged divorced men are notorious for that, and it's perfectly fine. Instead of judging and "disowning" you dad, try acting like a grown up and have a real, honest conversation with your dad and tell him how you feel.
2016-10-12 5:41 pm
I pick my wife based on our shared experiences and our goals. I don't get to pick my kids. And my wife and I social equals. My kids aren't my friends just yet. They're too young for that.
2016-10-13 1:18 am
Are you over 18? If you are, then it is very possible that your father sees you as an adult. Realistically, children grow up and leave the home. If you want a partner, someone to share your life with, that is going to be a spouse, not a child. As a parent I will always love my children, and I cannot imagine loving a man who isn't their father more than I love them. But my job is to raise them right and give them wings. They will not be the ones in my bed at night or traveling the world with me when I retire.
2016-10-12 7:17 pm
Love is different for each person. It can't be measured. It isn't the exact same feeling for each person. Relationships are all unique.
A man's love for his wife is Not the same as his love for his child. Although people change (or children grow to be their own persons) throughout their lives, remember that a child is forever. The bond between parent and child cannot be broken. Even when that relationship isn't good.
A man's love for his wife is Not the same as his love for his child. Although people change (or children grow to be their own persons) throughout their lives, remember that a child is forever. The bond between parent and child cannot be broken. Even when that relationship isn't good.
2016-10-12 5:50 pm
You pick your spouse, not you kids.... those little monsters just get squeezed out over the years.
2016-10-15 2:59 am
Someday you will understand he difference between true love and unconditional love for your children.
Some men let women become overbearing and control the relationships he has with his children. Sad...but true.
Some men let women become overbearing and control the relationships he has with his children. Sad...but true.
2016-10-12 6:09 pm
The role of a parent is to make their children independent adults.
The goal of a relationship is to intertwine your lives.
What you are asking for goes against making his children independent adults.
The goal of a relationship is to intertwine your lives.
What you are asking for goes against making his children independent adults.
2016-10-12 10:50 pm
For me, wife first. But, there are limits, and if she can't accept children from another marriage, it would be a mistake to continue it.
2016-10-12 6:13 pm
That's not necessarily true. But a man chooses his wife because he's in love, but is often not prepared for a child. Men have to learn to love their children. They are not maternal.
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