ok i met this old buddy in college from highschool and he's the kinda of guy who drinks , smokes , and just sleeps around and parties and have fun and living his life normally. my parents know this guy and they are overprotective and they don't want me to be his friend, they are like he went to jail once and he is a bad friends circle and bullshit like that, well atleast we could be friends and i can get a life and meet many friends through him from parties and stuff instead of just staying home without anything to do. but they are so annoying and being overprotective and nosy in everything. it's pissing me off. i'm 19, they should have no permission to tell me what to do, i can do what i want. they should cut out their crap. i don't care what he does, this is my life, i pick my friends. they are driving me crazy, and yes i live with them and i can't move out yet, they pay for my college and i still didn't graduate. do you guys think they are right? or wrong?
it's so annoying.
my family are overprotective and i'm like 19? so annoying. what should i do?
2016-10-06 12:55 pm
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2016-10-06 1:09 pm
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Look parents only want the best for us. They've raised you, went through hell to bring you to this age you are and probably even now wreck their minds on how your life will turn out to be and praying you'll have a successful career and family one day. Smoking, partying, drinking, sleeping around aren't normal things. I'm almost 19 and not even slightly interested in such things. I'd rather read books, go hiking or running and study for college than do any of those above. Because I think about my future not just finding pleasure now and screwing things for later. They're right to be concerned because someone as troublesome as your friend won't have a good proper circle for you to hang around. You'll be convinced to try things they do and you might get hurt or worse due to them. Especially if you become romantically inoclved with that guy. Sleeping around has it's dangers you know. So listen to then they only want the best for you. Even though you'll be the one to suffer they care.
2016-10-06 9:32 pm
Just be thankful that your parents care about you. They are trying to protect you from this guy. This guy could end up hurting you and then you will probably be mad at your family if they hadn't said something to stop you.
You really do not want to be hanging with that crowd anyways. Those people are not going to be there for you when something happens to you. Your family is going to be there for you all the time and they are there to protect you. You might not realize it at this point but in the future you will know that they did it for your protection. You are over 18 so do whatever you want, you are technically an adult.
Just know that if you do make this decision to go hang out with these people, your parents could end up kicking you out. Then you will need to find someone else to live with and figure out how you are going to be able to survive without your family.
You really do not want to be hanging with that crowd anyways. Those people are not going to be there for you when something happens to you. Your family is going to be there for you all the time and they are there to protect you. You might not realize it at this point but in the future you will know that they did it for your protection. You are over 18 so do whatever you want, you are technically an adult.
Just know that if you do make this decision to go hang out with these people, your parents could end up kicking you out. Then you will need to find someone else to live with and figure out how you are going to be able to survive without your family.
2016-10-06 1:00 pm
What makes you think drinking and smoking is normal - i do neither and i`m very healthy at 63.
2016-10-06 12:57 pm
The hard truth is that it's your family, they're always going to be overprotective and if you don't want to hear it, move out. And honestly, from what you've described, I would be concerned too.
When you have your own house and you're paying for yourself, you can be friends with whoever you want.
When you have your own house and you're paying for yourself, you can be friends with whoever you want.
2016-10-06 2:52 pm
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