You're not likely to find any good tips here; there are too many trolls infesting this community, and your questions aren't what this community was created for.
Your best bet is to go to a web forum especially created for trans people. There's a good one here:
http://www.trueselves.com/forum.php
參考: The Ramsay troll may be ignored. Not only is he a huge closet case, but as you can see from his answer, he loves to show off how clueless he is about everything LGBT related. Strangely, he seems to think that it's a good thing.