Would you adopt a child? I am leary... but want a child. My wife does not. Never did.?
2016-09-29 11:10 am
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2016-09-29 7:57 pm
Looking at your profile, you can't even decide if you are male or female, so chances are you aren't ready for a child yet, adopted or not.
2016-09-30 1:21 pm
All adoptions require an extensive homestudy and if she doesn't want a child, you won't pass the homestudy. Aside from interviewing you and your wife, they will your references too. When a married couple adopts, both spouses need to be on board with it.
All children whether they are adopted or biological deserve to go into a home where they are wanted by both parents, not just one. That is what is healthy for them.
When I met my husband, I had a biological child from a previous marriage and also an adopted daughter that I adopted when I was single. He was on-board with accepting both children and I wanted to adopt again and he was also on-board with that. So he adopted my daughter and we adopted a son together and also had 3 biological children together. Total, I have 6 kids.. 2 adopted, 4 biological.
All children whether they are adopted or biological deserve to go into a home where they are wanted by both parents, not just one. That is what is healthy for them.
When I met my husband, I had a biological child from a previous marriage and also an adopted daughter that I adopted when I was single. He was on-board with accepting both children and I wanted to adopt again and he was also on-board with that. So he adopted my daughter and we adopted a son together and also had 3 biological children together. Total, I have 6 kids.. 2 adopted, 4 biological.
2016-09-29 11:33 am
"My wife does not. "
There's your answer right there. Someone who does not want to adopt will never pass a home study. That combined with you being "leery", there's not a chance this will happen.
There's your answer right there. Someone who does not want to adopt will never pass a home study. That combined with you being "leery", there's not a chance this will happen.
參考: Adoptee and Adoptive Mom.
2016-09-30 12:25 am
Well, let's start with: I wouldn't have married someone who didn't want to have kids. Second, we discussed adoption at length and had both looked into single parent adoption at one point. Third, we have two beautiful adopted children.
2016-09-29 11:12 am
Rather than destroying two lives (your wife's and the child), divorce your wife and find a woman who wants kids.
2016-09-29 5:18 pm
You are Timothy Leary? I've always wondered where you went. I'm leery of Leary.
2016-10-07 7:24 pm
If you want a child and she doesn't, then NO adoption agency will accept you adopting a child. You either both agree, or you don't have a child.
2016-10-06 12:13 am
I think it is amazing that someone would want to adopt a kid. It takes a lot of heart and determination and reading some of the stories of wonderful mothers and fathers who adopted kids brought tears to my eyes. I feel immense respect for them
2016-09-30 7:53 pm
Adoption g is out if the question if Yuri wife doesn't want children.
2016-09-30 5:11 pm
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2016-09-29 11:48 am
Yeah but I would have to have more money to support the kid
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