Help with girl?
2016-09-11 5:09 pm
So there is a girl who likes me and we started taking in chemistry and have been talking, face timing and been out once together so we have been talking for two weeks now and a problem popped up, a few of my exes from ages ago have told her that I'm a 'F*ck boy' which means you talk to girls and mess with them and break there heart. Which I am not, there trying to sabotage my love life the horrible girls. The girl I've been talking to for two weeks told me that they told her all of this and the girl I'm talking is worried because a boy mess about with her last year and she doesn't want this done again but she think I might do it so she's unsure. She said she's away for a nap so I'm trying to prove I'm not a 'f*ck boy' but I really like and she still likes me so what should I do.
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2016-09-11 5:19 pm
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Tell her this: "If I heard RUMORS about you, should I believe them or find out from you if they are TRUE?" Wait and let her think about that.Before she answers, tell her this: "You Can Live Scared Worried and Wondering. I'm not going to try to convince to TRUST me. You have to do that by yourself. All I deserve is your respect and a fair chance.
ISN'T THAT WHAT YOU WOULD WANT FROM ME??"
SMILE when you say that and don't say anything else.
You can walk away if you want... but don't say anything more.
She will be torturing herself over what you said.
2016-09-11 5:22 pm
Time will tell. continue to pursue her, reassure her that you are sincere. get your friends to support you, tell her that you are nothing like that.
It is natural that she is worried. After all, she had a bad experience and she would be more guarded.
It probably took her courage to open up to you and be friends with you.
Yet just when she decided to give it a chance, the stupid exs told her that.
Naturally, she needs more time to rethink the situation again.
Be patient with her. In the meantime, prove to her that you are not like that boy who messed with her.
Also remind her that the guy your exs know were the you from ages ago (I am not saying u were really bad, just maybe tell her perhaps u didn't handle the past r/s or break up so well and upset the girls w/o realising it. You are definitely much more mature now and will handle r/s better.)
Hope this helps.
It is natural that she is worried. After all, she had a bad experience and she would be more guarded.
It probably took her courage to open up to you and be friends with you.
Yet just when she decided to give it a chance, the stupid exs told her that.
Naturally, she needs more time to rethink the situation again.
Be patient with her. In the meantime, prove to her that you are not like that boy who messed with her.
Also remind her that the guy your exs know were the you from ages ago (I am not saying u were really bad, just maybe tell her perhaps u didn't handle the past r/s or break up so well and upset the girls w/o realising it. You are definitely much more mature now and will handle r/s better.)
Hope this helps.
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