What do you think of people who sit alone at lunch?
I don't mind sitting alone, I'm socially awkward so I have very few friends but that's fine with me, If none of my friends are in lunch then I want to sit alone but I don't want to be seen as weird. Do people think anything of people who sit alone?
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Alot think of them as loners that don't have any friends. That's mostly why it bothers me when I find myself without my gang during lunch time. I don't want to be seen as if I have no friends and eat alone. Mostly popular people will think bad stuff about eating alone.
I'm shy and look like a nerd. So I kind of care about what people think of me. At my school (high school), if someone eats alone, they'll mostly think you have no social life and that you look awkward. In high school, alot care about the image that others give or that they give themselves, eating alone is seen as something ridiculous or pathetic.
Who cares what other think as long as they don't bother you? Some people are extroverts and some are introverts and have a small circle of friends. There is no shame in being alone once in a while. In fact, it can help you to concentrate on yourself for a while and be alone with your thoughts. I don't know if you like being alone, but I certainly enjoy it. That does not mean that I hate being with my friends, but some alone time is also beneficial, because it helps to reflect on your feelings and thoughts etc.
I sit alone. But there isn't one thing everyone else thinks about loners. Some think your weird, and the opposite end of that they might think you're cool. I find both of these things annoying. I've had people come up to me asking me why always sit alone, in an incredibly judgemental tone, and I've had people come up to me asking if I was okay. Some might just not care, or take it as it is, "that's a person who is sitting alone", others make it up, thinking that you think you're better than them. Lots of thoughts, of lots of different people. 'They' don't all think the same thing. Most of the time they just think I'm weird, or cool, or an ***. Probably the same with you. Best thing to do is to not give a **** what they think, their opinion is useless, at least to me and should be to you.
It depends. If they're reading, they never look alone.
I sit alone at the lunch room at base. But when I am with my family we have to sit together. It just doesn't feel right otherwise.
I can only speak for myself but I used to work at Home Depot and there are were people that would eat by themselves in the break room. I never thought they were weird.
I think in school, some will think its weird
but only because they are not mature enough to understand that some people would rather be or eat,on their own
it makes them uncomfortable because they could never do it, they NEED other people around them
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