Is there some way I can see if he did?
Not sure I will say/do anything if he did, just curious as to whether his wife is lying or not.
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A mutual friend thought that if he had filed it with a Lawyer that it would come to light once the Coroner's Office filed a notice to the State. But he couldn't say how the State would know which Lawyer to contact or anything else to back it up. So I'm left wonder how it is that our last wishes are carried out.