PLEASE HELP!!! Does he like me?
2016-08-20 12:26 pm
Hey so I'm a 15 year old girl and this past week my dads college friend came up with his family for a few days. He has a son that's my age and we've met before but we were never really good friends but this year we had a lot of fun together. One night we were sitting outside alone and just talking for awhile and I really wanted him to make a move but he didn't, so I thought maybe he wasn't in to me now but I wasn't sure. Then the next day I had to leave early and say goodbye to everyone so when I left I just waved goodbye to him. Later he texted me and said, "just for the record that's not how I wanted to say goodbye. I really had a good time with U this summer" does he like me? I thought he liked me but when he didn't make a move when we were sitting outside I wasn't sure. Was he trying to tell me he likes me by sending that text?
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2016-08-20 1:37 pm
Strong men don't make moves when they barely know someone.
Long distance relationships are hard to make work because it’s very difficult to find out what the other person is really like. It’s easy to put on an act (over half of good communication is nonverbal). You need to be participating in a wide variety of wholesome activities together to find out what the other person is really like in all types of situations. Pay special attention to how they react when they don’t get their own way or when something goes
Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.
May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.
My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this guy unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.
(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)
Hope this helps!
PS The best way to get to know a strong man without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service organization, a school organization, or a religious organization.
PPS My recommendation is that you don't group date until you're a freshman in high school and that you don't one-on-one date until you're a junior in high school. This may sound crazy, but the reason for this suggestion is that only about two percent of high school sweethearts who marry end up having a fifty year marriage. Just because so many people are getting their hearts broken and messing up their lives by dating before they’re a strong person and/or the person they agree to date isn't a strong person, doesn't mean that you have to.
Long distance relationships are hard to make work because it’s very difficult to find out what the other person is really like. It’s easy to put on an act (over half of good communication is nonverbal). You need to be participating in a wide variety of wholesome activities together to find out what the other person is really like in all types of situations. Pay special attention to how they react when they don’t get their own way or when something goes
Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.
May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.
My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this guy unless he’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of guy (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of man is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.
(Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)
Hope this helps!
PS The best way to get to know a strong man without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service organization, a school organization, or a religious organization.
PPS My recommendation is that you don't group date until you're a freshman in high school and that you don't one-on-one date until you're a junior in high school. This may sound crazy, but the reason for this suggestion is that only about two percent of high school sweethearts who marry end up having a fifty year marriage. Just because so many people are getting their hearts broken and messing up their lives by dating before they’re a strong person and/or the person they agree to date isn't a strong person, doesn't mean that you have to.
參考: True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults,
Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis
2016-08-20 12:28 pm
When a guy dosen't make a move , sometimes it's that either he is shy or dosen't want you to hate him. So it's likely that he likes you. You should tell him, if that wasn't how you wanted to say goodbye, show me how you wanted to next time.
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