I feel like being married when it is sincere and true can be such a beautiful everyday moment and connection, a lifetime commitment.
I come from a religious background where marriage primarily is the only halal way for Men and Women to have a relationship.
It seems that nowadays the essence of relationships are being listed and replaced with voids , one or both individual is missing and they're focused on anything else in the relationship aside from "love"
I do not believe love has a certain timing at when you can and can not want or desire marriage.
Is 18 "too young" to want to be married? I have very reasonable answers to why I desire this.?
2016-08-09 9:32 pm
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2016-08-09 9:52 pm
✔ 最佳答案
I am in the same boat as you. 18 and wanting to get married.. Then I get showered with negative comments from everyone saying "You're too young" or "Get an education in college first"It's ultimately your decision though, you're an adult, sometimes pleasing everyone just isn't the way to live your life. and by the time you're 30 and still living happily with your spouse you can tell everyone and show off how well you 2 have been. It really doesn't matter the age, love is a beautiful thing and I don't think 18 is young at all.
That's how I see it anyways :)
I wish you luck on your decisions
2016-08-09 9:36 pm
You should know that you haven't spent any time as an independent adult. After a few years on your own, you will change and your perspective will change. A lot of young marriages end up in divorce or just unhappy, so it's better to wait and spend time with him, but you shouldn't rush into marriage that quickly. Go to college and finish school first.
2016-08-09 9:40 pm
No, it's not to young to "want" to be married.
But...
A marriage 'should' be two complete, stable lives "choosing" to share life together as equal partners. Both should have their own place to live, car, and income.
If one is 'taking care of' the other, resentment starts to build and stresses start to form.
But...
A marriage 'should' be two complete, stable lives "choosing" to share life together as equal partners. Both should have their own place to live, car, and income.
If one is 'taking care of' the other, resentment starts to build and stresses start to form.
2016-08-09 11:17 pm
Just keep in mind that marriage should not be a life goal. Marriage should happen when you meet someone who you want to spend your life with. It's the person and the relationship that matters, not the marital status. Not everyone ends up meeting "the one". Far too many people settle in order to achieve a goal, but that's backwards. It's fine to be open to marriage and to desire it, but it's not fine to make marriage an absolute goal or a stipulation for being happy.
2016-08-09 9:35 pm
much to young
2016-08-09 9:58 pm
Do whatever the hell you want, you ask a question of if you are too young to marry and then disagree with everyone telling you that you are, so what's the point of the question ?
2016-08-10 2:13 pm
No it's not too young. It's the proper place for sex.
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