My gf gained weight should I dump her now? or give her a second chance and wait to marry her?

yes, noone here is on your side however if you sat on the couch all day eating burgers and chips refusing to do any activities together and letting yourself go to an unrecognisable slob and she asked me i would tell her the same thing, when u get in a relationship with someone there is a reason for that, cz you like/love/and find them attractive, if they change drasticly they are not the same person, she will not go swimming wiv you cz she doesnt want people to see her body, she will not excersize with you cz she is embarressed to be seen, she will not go out cz shes tired, not do a fair share of housework cz she is tired, not be attractive to you sexually cz you didnt and still dont find girls her size attractive, she will eat more and more, do less and less and you will end up unhappy resenting her and feeling depressed and trapped in a marriage with a woman that u find repulsive, oh and by the way thats all your fault (sarcasem intended) am not saying all woman should be super models and i know bodys change but there is a simple fair fact of respecting yourself and your partner, and am tired of woman totally letting themselves go to a point where they are downright unattractive, and saying guys are *** holes and shallow for leaving,if i lost my job and all my money would i pull a decent girlfriend, no, so but we dont say all woman are gold diggers, if i was 22 stone would i have a stunner under my arm, no but we dont say woman are shallow and superficial, in a long term relationship people grow apart abit,the spark goes, the apprechiation goes a little, the things we used to tolerate or find cute become annoying and the sex becomes a bit boring, with all that going on stacking on loads of weight and a bad attitude are not the way forward.woman and men MAKE MORE EFFORT there is always some interesting beautifull lovely guy/girl ready to take your partner when you get lazy and complacent, i know am going to get shredded for this but hey,its all true

Do her a favour and leave her.

that is very shallow of you to say that about your girl. If you loved her, you wouldn't care if she gained some weight. Instead of badgering her to go on a diet and making her do unhealthy things to her body, why not join her in the diet and jogging as well? Make it a team effort, not a do or die situation. And dumping her just for that is stupid and immature of you. Go be a man and have a freakin heart, *******

If you're considering dumping a woman for gaining weight you shouldn't have a woman.

Yes, do it now, rather than later. She is who she is. No point in trying to change her. If weight is such and issue for you, you should know that she will only get bigger after marriage and especially after pregnancy.

Hope you get dumped further down the track for your pot belly.

Yes, dump her now.
Definitely.

Do her a favour and leave her because you don't deserve her. **** YOU SCUM

it's called...all you have to do is ask her to go jogging in the morning....get it....tell her only to have one meal a day....