So I have known this girl for 6 months from a night club I go to regularly. It turns out she liked me & I liked her so we went on a date & we had an amazing time however the day after she had to go back home for 10 weeks to visit family. We spoke, face called every day sometimes twice a day & I even visited her and spent the weekend with her. It was the best weekend we have ever had. We has said we love each other & that we are perfect however things seem to of changed since she got back on Thursday. Despite me seeing her a few times since Thursday I am so confused. Small things I notice is she doesn’t put kisses at the end of messages as often, she seems a bit more blunt in texts and just little things like that. She did say she loved me a few days ago & says she doesn’t say it often so it doesn’t lose its meaning, which makes sense? However she has said I have been delaying the ‘ask to be my girlfriend’ question, which I know I have but that’s because I was nervous. On Sunday I was sat on the sofa with her and we were talking & I think she had the feeling I was going to ask her then, but she said it was not the right time, what does she mean by this? We are going bowling together tonight along with a friend and his girlfriend, but at the same time I suppose she wouldn’t want to spend time with me if she didn’t feel the same way? I just have this thought she doesn’t feel the same way even though if I ask her ‘Do you love me’ and she responds ‘Stupid question you know I do'
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UPDATE - Last night I asked her to be my girlfriend. she went all shy & didnt answer. we had a good evening, we kissed & said good night. During the night she was a little offish and she said she was crying, so i called her. I asked her what it was she wanted & she said me but she is scared of being hurt! She said she loves me but thinks I deserve better. She says I make her happy but just seems scared! I asked when we can make things official & she said I will have to wait and its a suprise?
