Christian help!!?

You stand by your principles and don't let the world tell you how to live.

You will find that you aren't alone. It isn't really that uncommon to stay abstinent. A lot of people do it. I did. Same for most of my friends.

Sure, the media makes it look like nobody stays abstinent, but the media's job is to entertain us. Not to give us an accurate representation of the real world.

I think sex is a healthy thing in relationships nowadays why would it matter what other people are doing anyway

The invention of the condom and other birth control pretty much ended the need for that rule, although there are a lot of unplanned pregnancies anyway. This is because people are really dumb for the most part, but there is also a small amount of faulty technology.

Just don't have sex before marriage? It's pretty easy to avoid.

You can stick to your convictions. No one can stop you. If a person is right for you they'll understand.

Unless you don't want to stick to those convictions, in which case you might want to re-examine your actual beliefs.

Sex is God's wedding gift to mankind.

Open the present too early and spoil the surprise.

If someone wants to have sex with you, but won't marry you... they don't deserve you.

Getting married TO have sex is the wrong reason to get married.

Your marriage will be much better and the respect your future husband will have for you will be increased if You wait upon that wedding night ! Don't go the way of the world ! Most marriages now end in divorce ! Your husband will be so blessed in the thought of your virginity ! That honor will be a blessing to You as well ! Hang in their and let not the children of the world rob you of Great Blessings !!!
JESUS BLESS YOU
david stotler

Remember the 11th commandment. NEVER play games with someone who loves you. Be completely clear about your stance every time you date, or decide that there is spiritual value in the bonding of spirits that happens during intercourse.

Don't have sex. As a Christian I know what you're through. Abstinence can be difficult at times. However, the Bible says: “FLEE from fornication” (1 Corinthians 6:18) The Bible clearly states that “God will judge fornicators.” (Hebrews 13:4) Few young ones today seem willing to obey the Bible’s words and refrain from sex until they are married. Some have given in to their desires and have suffered pain and a troubled conscience.

It's not easy to control sexual urges. Admits Paul, “At times, thoughts about sex enter my mind without any apparent cause or reason.”
However, many young ones today promote indulging sexual impulses, not controlling them. Thus, many may feel pressured to try premarital sex. (Galatians 5:19)

The right kind of friends can influence you in a positive way. (Proverbs 13:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33) There will often be some who do not conduct themselves honorably. (2 Timothy 2:20) Avoid association with such ones, seek out friends who will support your determination.

Be faithful to God, as Joseph and all the Patriarchs who honored God with their purity--God has not changed, human nature as it is does, that is why this scripture says this:

Romans 12V1ff:"I BESEECH you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that YE PRESENT your BODIES, a LIVING SACRIFICE, Holy, Acceptable unto God, WHICH is YOUR reasonable service.

V2:"And be NOT Conformed to this world: but be ye Transformed by the Renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and PERFECT, will of God."

Our bodies can be used as an instrument for sin. Now it has to be presented to God as a channel through which the righteousness of God is manifested.

Whatever sexual sin we do, will be held accountable, since our bodies are the Temple of God, who dwells there or not.

Since God does not dwell in unclean bodies (vessels), anyone who practices sexual sins, will not have the indwelling Holy Spirit living in their "temples" (bodies).