I am 24 and ruined my life?

let's have a tea and chat. As far as I am concerned, I don't think you have ruined your life or whatever.
If you aren't sociable, try talking, it really helps.
you are never a failure. Many people face everyday challenges and then overcome them. You and I can be inspired by such remarkable scenery. Having ruined your life or not, you are still a person. Be proud of who you are, because you are a remarkable gift from god. Learn from mistakes help you becoming a better person, not necessarily ideal, but you can see the footsteps you have been making in this life, and that's something worth celebrating, You don't have to be perfect or to be anyone else, just be yourself. Learn to appreciate life, as you have mentioned, life has its beauty. Think, what is your ideal goal? Seek it, improve it, master it. Then, your past will leave you. Love in the way you are, because you are perfect in god's eyes. Don't give up now, there's yet hope to be found. You can consider finding a counselor too, he or she may help you understand what the problem is, and to move on. Through understanding, patience and care, with love and time, you can attain greatness. Follow your heart.

i met people who were on the verge of suicide after he returned from the army diagnosed with PTSD and his wife left him during his service, he couldnt see his kids and half of his financial assets were taken from him. The man resorted to alcholism and watched every aspect of his life slip away. atleast this man has a reason to be depressed.

You have no reason whatsoever to commit suicide. Youve lived a pampered life since you were born, youve had everything youve ever wanted. and you want to kill yourself because you havent had sex? **** you, stop being pathetic and grow some balls. stop moping online for attention and find a way to solve your problem.

lose weight and youll solve your problem. stop being a brat

fat guys have become thin ones, dumb guys habe come smart ones , so you ruin nothing , life is what you choose it to be

You "fix" this by developing self-confidence.

Your life is hardly ruined. The problem is that you are too close to whatever is causing your anxiety.
If you hang on and stay positive... if you make a point on being constructive... if you build your self-confidence,
you're going to find that as time passes and you have more distance between you and this "ruin", you will be able to look back to today and see that this "ruin" isn't as disastrous as it looks.

As for never having had a bf at 24: Not a big deal. Stop being so desperate and someone special will find you when it's time.

As for never having had sex: Not a big deal. Stop being so desperate. When the right person comes along, you'll know it.

You define "failure" by not having had sex and a bf at the age of 24????? Seriously????

Where's your confidence??? if you had confidence, you wouldn't care what people think about you. Why are you trying to live by other people's standards??? Make your own plans for your own life, and live by your standards alone.

Now, stop feeling sorry for yourself and pick yourself up off the floor.
Best wishes.