Does this make me bi?
2016-07-09 6:48 pm
A while ago I developed an ocd about being bi. It's screwed my head up. Im trying to think back for years to see if i had any attraction towards men and im nearly sure I hadn't but there's a paranoid side says i had. I 17 yrs old a male. I remember when i was 12 I went through a phase of wanting to see a porno with a ripped guy and a really hot busty girl but it was more a fantasy, i grew out of it. Girls are soo much hotter and i only wanna date and have sex with girls. Im absolutely obsessing too much over men. It started off with worrying about if i got aroused over ripped dudes on magazines. Then it got worse, classic ocd. But even at the time if i did get aroused, which it was the ocd, me reminiscing too much over my childhood years. Say even if i did get aroused at that time, there wasn't a desire to have sex with a guy, maybe it was how the photos of ripped guys appear. I heard straight girls can get aroused by naked females. Sex with women would be 10 times better than I could ever imagine men. Am i bi or just really confused. Im fantasising and worrying too much, probably in need of therapy
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2016-07-09 7:19 pm
No,idea. If you are attracted to men and women, and have sex with both, then I guess you would be considered bi.
2016-07-09 9:25 pm
No, that's not bisexuality, that's just acknowledging what makes a guy attractive. You might even say that that's the sort of body you would desire that you yourself had, but that doesn't make it sexual attraction. Also the attractiveness of the male body is in a context with wanting to see a female body.
I always found guys with long hair to be attractive, when I was young. I always thought that that's what women really like in guys, and that's the look I was trying to achieve for myself. Later I found out that not all women want a guy with long hair. But before that, I was obsessed with getting long hair for myself. Nowadays, I keep my hair shaved short, and I'm still as attractive to women as before, maybe more so. So it's not really a sexual type attraction and self-image type of attraction.
I always found guys with long hair to be attractive, when I was young. I always thought that that's what women really like in guys, and that's the look I was trying to achieve for myself. Later I found out that not all women want a guy with long hair. But before that, I was obsessed with getting long hair for myself. Nowadays, I keep my hair shaved short, and I'm still as attractive to women as before, maybe more so. So it's not really a sexual type attraction and self-image type of attraction.
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