How should I feel about this? How would you feel about this?

2016-07-04 4:23 pm
My boyfriend and I had a long conversation last night on the topic of sex, and how much the either of us has gone with someone. I straight up said I'm a virgin but have felt up and stuff like that. Him on the other hand has had a ******** and has had sex. I do t know why but I kind of feel scared knowing that he has done all that stuff and it bothers me that he's been once intimate in such a way that they preformed sex. Dose this make me bad or is this a normal response?

回答 (4)

2016-07-04 4:40 pm
I think it's normal, you guys are a couple and the fact that he had sex with a girl before you is a little frustrating. Don't worry, maybe someday you will have sex and be in the position your boyfriend is in (pun intended)
2016-07-04 4:35 pm
It is perfectly normal, but there's one thing you need to remember. You have never been sexual with anyone, including him, but he has never been sexual with you, either. If and when you are sexual together, it will be the first time for both of you and he will be just as nervous and insecure as you. If it works out well, you'll become better with each other as you gain experience and true intimacy. If it doesn't, then you will move on to others.
2016-07-04 4:27 pm
Stop being an idiot, and stop right now.

Sorry if that was kind of totally cold and harsh. But the world is a cold harsh place, and you're the one who just asked a room full of online total strangers how you should feel about something. Idiot is kind of the only word to describe that kind of thinking.

Instead of asking us, ask yourself. And when you answer the question, be 100% honest. Because nobody ever lied to themselves and got away with it.
2016-07-04 4:27 pm
It is quite normal. The real,issue is how it affects you

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