Protective over a phone? My boyfrind won't let me look through is phone is that a bad thing?

You shouldn't be trying to snoop.

But at the same time, he is probably a player.

You have trust issues, and he is probably a player, so you both are f*cking up.

I do agree with anonymous, who said he found out his girlfriend was cheating- sometimes, it's good to do a little snooping, if you have serious suspicions.

you may wanna give an ultimatum- "let me see your phone, RIGHT NOW, or we are breaking up permanently cuz i will know you cheated and deleted stuff off your phone if you don't let me see it right now."

however don't give this ultimatum unless you are prepared to honor it.

Yes it's bad. It means he is hiding something. People say you shouldn't look through other peoples phones however I found out my ex was cheating by looking through her phone. I don't regret it one bit.

Trying to snoop police your BF is a bad thing.

Put the shoe on the other foot. Would it be bad if HE wanted to read your diary? Reading your diary and going through his phone are both invasions of privacy. On the pother hand, there probably are things in there mthat he would rather you not see. Same as in your diary, right?

Yes. He should feel comfortable enough to not care.

It potentially could be but most likely he just doesn't want you to see his porn. Like 90% of guys. Lol

His Phone is none of your business. If there is something in there that will give you doubts and insecurities about your relationship with him, then you deserve the TORTURE you will put on yourself.
My Ex's use to ask me questions. i ask them if they REALLY REALLY wanted to know? I'd ask them to be sure, because I won't lie, but if they get hurt or insecure, I'm NOT apologizing and its their problem.

One of my ex's once asked me "Who is Frankenstein?". Asked her "Why were you looking thru my phone?" She said "I didn't look thru your phone." I asked "Where did you get Frankenstein from?" SHE BLUSHED.

Anytime you SNOOP, you invade someone's PRIVACY.
That is a lack of Trust and Respect.
If you find something that hurts you, you HAVE TO admit to the person you wronged, they can't trust you.
Even if you share yours to be fair, IF YOU GET HURT, it's still your own fault.

yeah it is. if he doesn't trust you, or if he is hiding something, you need to know that now and deal with it accordingly.

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