***For the record, I'm not some bitter "ugly" guy - fairly decent looking, as validated by multiple women... Just wanted to see what people's opinions are on this***
@ Waterdragon - No no, dont get me wrong, I am absolutely in agreement with you on that sentiment - they have to be attractive TO YOU, and YOU only, who cares what others think I am just baffled by people who think looks and/or sexual attraction doesnt matter at all... I DO disagree with that... At the end of the day, do u desire romantically or sexually someone who YOU - YOU only, remember this - think and/or feel is ugly and/or unappealing?
I wonder why it's all or nothing with these answers - let's assume that all these people have decent personalities at least, not terrible people, mean, bitter, superficial, angry, etc etc If two people u are interested in have similar personalities - good ones, both of them - and one is more attractive physically than the other, who are u going to pick?