What would you do in this situation?

1. I'd have NEVER tolerated a decade of abuse from anyone. We'd have addressed the problem immediately and if it couldn't be resolved, the marriage would've ended. We wouldn't have lasted a year, much less 10.

2. I wouldn't be with someone I didn't love.

3. I've never wanted kids anyway, so that's a non-issue for me.

4. I wouldn't be with someone I didn't want to be affectionate or sexual with.

5. If we went to marriage counseling once, and had a good counselor, and still nothing improved, that would be that. We'd part ways and not waste any more time with each other when clearly we weren't a good match.

This life is too short to spend it with someone who isn't a good match.

Isn't it obvious? You split up and go your separate ways. This marriage has been over for a long time. Why would you be able to force yourself to give affection to a husband and mother team who spent years demeaning you? And why would you want to? Once you go you take whatever time it takes to find yourself again and get to like you again. Now would be a good time to do some renovation of you and take stock of all aspects of your life. Maybe it's time for a new job too? New hobbies? New friends? A new town even?

Pack your things, LEAVE and file for a divorce.

Split up. Be alone for awhile. Enjoy single life.

Say goodbye, it's over

Divorce. Now.

I would already have divorced him.

10 years of marriage is not a short time. Moreover, a marriage without kids. Seems like it isn't any burden or difficulties for you to make a decision. Since you've used 10 years to make improvement to your marriage but turned out unsuccessful, am sure you are very confirmed & understand your ownself how you are feeling and being treated all these years. Its time to leave and look for the right path which is suitable for you.

I wouldn't have stuck around this long that's for sure.

I would be with someone else