We're both in our 30's. After dating for 4 years, I told him I needed a commitment (proposal, marriage in sight). He said, "it'll happen when the time is right". He has been using that line for the last two years and I thought 4 years was enough time for him to make a decision or at the very least talk a timeframe with me.
I calmly told him how I felt and that there's no hard feelings, but 4 years is a long time to be waiting and with him being super vague about when it'll ever happen.
We broke up two months ago. He suggested meeting for dinner tonight. I love him as a person and have no hard feelings since I realize we just had different timelines. Still, I'm unsure what to expect and am a bit afraid that this might open wounds that are just beginning to heal.
My ex wants to meet up for dinner. What should I expect?
2016-06-14 1:04 am
回答 (3)
2016-06-14 1:05 am
You should be expecting a booty call.
2016-06-14 1:24 am
Haha! The only time an ex wanted to meet with me, he told me over lunch how much better sex was with his new girlfriend. He wanted to apologize because his new GF had taught him to be less inhibited.
When it didn't work out between the two of them, he was surprised I didn't want him back.
When it didn't work out between the two of them, he was surprised I didn't want him back.
2016-06-14 1:22 am
Most people HAVE TOO experience REGRET to understand VALUE.
Get ready to hear a change of HEART STORY, but if its because, he is LONELY, that is not LOVE. If he presents a Ring, then you have a decision to make, but find out WHY?!! If you believe him, go with your heart, but if its "iffy" to you, you'll be taken for GRANTED, when things get comfortable between you two.
The VOWS state "For better or for worst, in sickness and in health, for rich or poor"... (and whatever the rest is).
Most people DO NOT think about what they ARE COMMITTING too.
They say "I Do." because that's what everyone does and You're SUPPOSE too.
Be VERY CAREFUL who/when you say "I Do" to, because most people find out… They really DIDN'T mean, "till death do us part".
In the "Dating Stage" is when you're suppose to find out if you are compatible. Even if things change down the road between you and your mate don't workout as a couple, you should have had the times (memories) that make you feel like you didn't waste your time with the wrong partner. If you are NOT sure of a person.
Date them, Don't guess. The curiosity will only kill/torture you.
You do not have to be a RELATIONSHIP to DATE.
You DATE to see IF you want to get into a RELATIONSHIP
IN A RELATIONSHIP, maybe it takes months or years to find out you are with the wrong person, but there are NO VOWS taken to be together, only an agreement that can Fade, Change or Die.
If you're in a Wrong Relationship…
break up and keep dating to find someone better.
If you're a Bad Marriage, cut your losses and Divorce before your years disappear and all you have left are REGRETS.
People always make MISTAKES of all KINDS, but thats how you learn
RIGHT from WRONG, GOOD from BAD. It's called EXPERIENCE
Get ready to hear a change of HEART STORY, but if its because, he is LONELY, that is not LOVE. If he presents a Ring, then you have a decision to make, but find out WHY?!! If you believe him, go with your heart, but if its "iffy" to you, you'll be taken for GRANTED, when things get comfortable between you two.
The VOWS state "For better or for worst, in sickness and in health, for rich or poor"... (and whatever the rest is).
Most people DO NOT think about what they ARE COMMITTING too.
They say "I Do." because that's what everyone does and You're SUPPOSE too.
Be VERY CAREFUL who/when you say "I Do" to, because most people find out… They really DIDN'T mean, "till death do us part".
In the "Dating Stage" is when you're suppose to find out if you are compatible. Even if things change down the road between you and your mate don't workout as a couple, you should have had the times (memories) that make you feel like you didn't waste your time with the wrong partner. If you are NOT sure of a person.
Date them, Don't guess. The curiosity will only kill/torture you.
You do not have to be a RELATIONSHIP to DATE.
You DATE to see IF you want to get into a RELATIONSHIP
IN A RELATIONSHIP, maybe it takes months or years to find out you are with the wrong person, but there are NO VOWS taken to be together, only an agreement that can Fade, Change or Die.
If you're in a Wrong Relationship…
break up and keep dating to find someone better.
If you're a Bad Marriage, cut your losses and Divorce before your years disappear and all you have left are REGRETS.
People always make MISTAKES of all KINDS, but thats how you learn
RIGHT from WRONG, GOOD from BAD. It's called EXPERIENCE
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