The rules of dating ?
2016-06-06 11:55 pm
I've never had a boyfriend, well I have had one but they only lasted a week because it's awkward. I don't know how to date can someone give me advice on what I do. Do I hug them when I see them? Do I always try and hold their hand?, what??
回答 (1)
2016-06-07 12:12 am
There are NO RULES. Even if there were, are you sure the other person knows them or understands them the way you do? People who date, "usually" like each other or something about each other. When they spend time together, they will either get along and relate OR NOT.
The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other,
but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing.
If you are not sure about a person, THAT IS WHY YOU DATE THEM.
To find out and be SURE and not worry or guess.
Just TALK. Get to know each other.
You NEVER have to SPEND MONEY to have a Date…
you do "Have Too" SPEND TIME together.
The only thing you "Have To PAY" is ATTENTION to your Date.
(Pretty Much Anybody Can Afford That)
Money is for the Event, NOT a good impression.
Dating is an introduction to a "possible" relationship
It IS NOT a romantic event with promises or commitments or obligations.
If a DATE is accepted, it is a time for two people to spend time getting to know each other to find out if there is compatibility or personal interest
between the two.
It doesn't matter if a guy ask a girl or a girl ask a guy out on a date.
You can Date for months and it is still not a Relationship.
When a guy and girl AGREE to be EXCLUSIVE to each other,
then it's a RELATIONSHIP.
Every BF/GF relationship you see, happened because
ONE OF THEM took a chance and made the first move.
EVEN IF YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP AND
LATER FIND OUT, IT'S A MISTAKE…
YOU BREAK UP and keep dating to find the right person for you.
A Date is ANY EVENT that has a memory attached to it,
NO MATTER what label you give it
The only thing required is 2 people (or more) and an event.
When you think about it in the future, if you can remember it, the people and activity…
it was a date. Just not a Romantic One.
If you want to guarantee yourself a 2nd date.
MAKE SURE they have a good time smiling and enjoying YOUR COMPANY.
That is WHY they would say YES to seeing you again…
NOT What or Where you went, that will change,
ONLY BOTH OF YOU WILL BE THE SAME.
You DO NOT have to be in a Relationship to DATE.
You Date to see "IF" you want to be in a RELATIONSHIP.
Go Experiment... Make a few Mistakes... it's one of the best way to learn for sure.
NOBODY in your age group, knows much more than you. All of them are new to it even if they had a BF/GF before.
They probably made a mistake, which is why they are single again.
The idea for Dating is to find out if there is anything between two people. Attraction is based on looks, but personality will let you know if you are worth each other's while. Muscles and Make Up attract guys and girls to each other,
but if the personalities SUCK, you have Nothing.
If you are not sure about a person, THAT IS WHY YOU DATE THEM.
To find out and be SURE and not worry or guess.
Just TALK. Get to know each other.
You NEVER have to SPEND MONEY to have a Date…
you do "Have Too" SPEND TIME together.
The only thing you "Have To PAY" is ATTENTION to your Date.
(Pretty Much Anybody Can Afford That)
Money is for the Event, NOT a good impression.
Dating is an introduction to a "possible" relationship
It IS NOT a romantic event with promises or commitments or obligations.
If a DATE is accepted, it is a time for two people to spend time getting to know each other to find out if there is compatibility or personal interest
between the two.
It doesn't matter if a guy ask a girl or a girl ask a guy out on a date.
You can Date for months and it is still not a Relationship.
When a guy and girl AGREE to be EXCLUSIVE to each other,
then it's a RELATIONSHIP.
Every BF/GF relationship you see, happened because
ONE OF THEM took a chance and made the first move.
EVEN IF YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP AND
LATER FIND OUT, IT'S A MISTAKE…
YOU BREAK UP and keep dating to find the right person for you.
A Date is ANY EVENT that has a memory attached to it,
NO MATTER what label you give it
The only thing required is 2 people (or more) and an event.
When you think about it in the future, if you can remember it, the people and activity…
it was a date. Just not a Romantic One.
If you want to guarantee yourself a 2nd date.
MAKE SURE they have a good time smiling and enjoying YOUR COMPANY.
That is WHY they would say YES to seeing you again…
NOT What or Where you went, that will change,
ONLY BOTH OF YOU WILL BE THE SAME.
You DO NOT have to be in a Relationship to DATE.
You Date to see "IF" you want to be in a RELATIONSHIP.
Go Experiment... Make a few Mistakes... it's one of the best way to learn for sure.
NOBODY in your age group, knows much more than you. All of them are new to it even if they had a BF/GF before.
They probably made a mistake, which is why they are single again.
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