I had strapon sex with my wife dressed in lingerie which she recorded. We're getting divorced & she is using it for blackmail. What do I do?

How can she blackmail you with consentual sex? I don't get it.

Upload to to youtube yourself and send her the link. Then her blackmail becomes worthless

Check with your lawyer. You might have grounds for a lawsuit or to file criminal charges. Blackmail is a criminal activity. Most states in the USA have no fault divorce. This will not make any difference in your divorce. It's irrelevant.

If your story is true, talk to your attorney about it. You can probably put a stop to it. She doesn't get what she wants, until the "recording" is no longer in her possession.

My guess is you're joking. In that case, just hope she captured your "good side".

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It shames her than it shames you. You too were both involved and it's her to chose to be indiscrete. People might laugh but that's you, why should you be ashamed being you? You 're going to a free man, she gives you free promotion for a more suitable new partner as there are obviously people who like this kind of sex. She, on the other hand, protrays herself as verdictive traitor. She's giving you better chances while ruining her own. Weird sex may turn off some people but severe character fault bascially cut all her chances.

Who's she going to show it to? So you two were into your own sex games... why should anyone care? No one except you cares at all. I don't want to watch it.

Let her get everything or take a chance getting exposed. It's your choice butt boy.

As long as the video shows it was consensual sex and you did nothing wrong, you're in the clear. Though it may embarrass you, having such an intimate video being shown.

Let her. Damn ***** ass hoe can do whatever she wants. She's not gonna show it to people and if she does than they are gonna look at her like shes an awful human. I'll punch her for you.
No one should have to deal with that **** and I hate it when girls do **** like that. Sets a bad Rep for the rest of us. I'm sorry you're going through that.