NEED SERIOUS ADVICE AND HELP PLEASE?

EVERYBODY at some point will get a broken heart. YOU CANNOT PROTECT OTHERS from it.

MOST PEOPLE don't know what "Love is".
They have an illusion of it, because to them...
Love is happiness and a "Warm Spot In The Sunshine".
But TRUE LOVE is what really happens when things go bad or the worst happens and YOU STAY BY THAT PERSON OR PEOPLE.
Like Parents do with their KIDS. THAT IS LOVE.
Even if the Kids HATE their Parents, their Parents are still there for them.
If you cannot do that with "A MATE" in a relationship,
when your "Warm Spot In The Sunshine" is covered by a dark cloud,
all you have is an "Illusion of what Love is",
You have NO IDEA.
Plus LOVE is just an emotion that Changes, Fades or Dies.
ACCEPT FOR THE LOVE OF SONS AND DAUGHTERS.
Even after the death of a Son or a Daughter,
The Parent's Love For That Child Still Continues.
THAT IS WHAT IS LOVE. Again, you have NO IDEA.

The old relationship taught you what you needed to know.
She is NOT the one for you. Relationships are trial runs to marriage.
If you FORCE it to work, one day you'll burnout of working at it and you'll lose everything. Good and Right relationships take work also, but at least your mate is right by your side and not your opponent.

You do not have to be a RELATIONSHIP to DATE.
You DATE to see IF you want to get into a RELATIONSHIP.