Should I go through what my wife wants or is it wrong?

2016-05-24 6:01 am
So my wife is bisexual and we have an open marriage, so for the last few months we've been sleeping with this gorgeous college grad. She's just like my wife, smart/educated has a full time job. She just graduated Yale and has already accepted a job as an architect. Now my wife and I have been talking about having children. My wife told me that the woman that we've been sleeping with wants to have a baby as well and the woman wants me to be the father. I feel a little awkward but I love my wife and care about this woman more then anything. And she doesn't want money, because she has plenty of it. What should I do??

回答 (14)

2016-05-24 6:10 pm
I have a hard time believing this question is true at all, but if it were? I'd think about the financial repercussions... because there will be some.
2016-05-24 6:07 am
Your wife want you be the father of her friends future baby.

But, it will make you complicated in life.

If your wife will allow you live together with the girl up to raising the kid, it will be ok that you can be the father of her friend baby.
2016-05-24 6:31 am
Your and your wife relationship with this
girl is only a few months old -- WAY too
early to be intentionally making babies.
Wait a year (or even two) before the three
of you talk about it again (assuming you're
even still together by that time).

[By the way, how is your sexy
"valley Victorian" cousin doing?]
2016-05-24 9:18 am
I dont believe even one woman would agree to have sex with u troll
2016-05-24 11:01 pm
Go for it and once a few years have past and your realize your wife and this woman have been using you as a sperm donor and their true colors began to show will just be around the same time your child support will kick in. It won't be cheap either. If i were you I would file for divorce and run for the hills fast from both of these women before its too late. You deserve better. BTW open marriages are never a good idea regardless of whom she is sleeping with.
2016-05-24 6:24 am
NO this bargin is doom
You are saying you care about the other girl MORE than anything
so thats mean you love her more than your wife ?
Plus ;; you are saying she as lots of money ;; but one day a real fight will erupt
and she will take the child and run away with him / her
plus she will ask you a alimony
plus she will black mail you for not being a good father and she will end up with half of your salary
If she want a child and have so much money
she can go at any sperm bank and get prego
Also you have to think about the emotional stability of the child
A child is NOT a toy

Mother of 5 grown up
2016-05-24 5:51 pm
Go for it. If the three of you agree, and you've considered what comes later and are prepared to cope with whatever happens, there should be no hesitation.
2016-05-24 10:30 am
Go for it. She will be beholden to you which means you can have 3-somes for a long time to come.
2016-06-04 6:38 pm
The more prudish (and/or religious) among us would say that your wife being bisexual, much less your open marriage is wrong. But such is none of their business so they can all (bleep) themselves. Anyway, with that said, I think that if the three of you are all okay with such and you take the proper legal steps to protect your parental rights as far as the future child with the woman (you are not married to) you and your wife are sleeping with, then you should go for it. Just realize that sooner or later, someone will figure out that you are the father of the other woman's child and there will be no explaining it away to most of the general public, even if your wife publicly stands by you and her. Even after that, you will eventually have to explain the whole thing to this child(ren), as well as the child(ren) you hope to have with your wife, including her bisexuality (I will presume you are straight, sir, but if you are bisexual too, I am cool with it too, but you will have to explain such too) and you cannot assume these ladies will (both or one of them) be available to assist in her own words. If you all have love for each other and not just lust..and you can take the heat from others if someone finds out (eventually), then go for it and don't let close-minded folk and/or fear and/or societal pressures stop you.
參考: Some first hand and second-hand knowledge.
2016-05-26 6:42 pm
I think that's what is called having your cake and eating it too
2016-05-25 2:27 am
Not yet...but sooner or later she'll take your money and your wife.
2016-05-24 8:30 am
NO.

But if you need to ask random strangers, she's gonna get what she wants sooner or later.
2016-05-24 8:06 am
have the child with your wife and not with the other woman
2016-05-24 6:21 am
YOU HAVE A WIFE WTF DO YOU MEAN? TELL THE WH*** TO F*** OFF

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