My son's father has not seen him since he was about 3-4 months, he's now 10 months.
My son father doesn't want anything to do with me because of how I treated him when I was pregnant.(i beleive that he is really upset because i dont want to be with him anymore, i cant be myself around him) I did have a rough preganancy. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum and beacuse of that i was always sick and moody. I feel like my son father is upset that i dont want to be with him because everytime we did talk that was all he complained about, about us not being together. My son father was indeed there my entire pregnancy even when I gave birth. The day I gave birth my son father went out and got a $250 tattoo of a tiger. he has never bought my son ANYTHING!!!
I have been calling him but no answer. I dont feel that its fair that i raise him alone. I have always tried to include him in everything with my son, I have invited him to doctors appts, baptism, surgery...everything and he is never there.
Please share advice and I would really like some advice from a mans point of view as well about this.
I am currently trying to get him served papers, but dont have an address nor work address. I know where he lives but dont have the address.
Please Help!! thank you all in advance..
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Oh!! I forgot. he did not sign the birth certificate!! I'm just simply trying to get him served so that he can start support our son financially and hopefully some visitation.
