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A therapist could really help, but at the very least start loving the child within you and forgiving that child for anything he's done. He was a boy who simply did not have the understanding, skills, or knowledge to deal with such terrible events. He responded like anyone else would to abnormal events. It also might be worth considering that many bullies act out behaviors on others that their fathers, brothers, or someone else acts on out them, and that those who bully often lose the ability to develop the level of compassion required to live happy lives Learn from what happened to you to be a kinder, more compassionate person, and start by practicing that on yourself. If you do that, you might find that your place in this world is to help others who are in emotional distress. Love yourself, and see your experiences as terrible, but nonetheless contributing to you in some ways. The philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche said that which does not destroy us makes us stronger. And the psychologist Viktor Frankl said that we don't know our destiny until we face the unique challenges that life puts us through. You've faced some terrible times; if you forgive yourself and are kind to yourself, your life will only get better. But, really, you have work to do, and I think a therapist could be really helpful, especially if you were willing to build a trusting relationship with that therapist over time.