I don't know what to believe?

2016-05-21 8:56 am
My boyfriend's ex girlfriend who admitted to still having feelings for him and has caused problems for us in the past has told me multiple times that he cheated on me with her. He has looked me in the eyes on several occasions and has calmly promised me that it's not true. Based on her past of lying to get the outcome she wants (such as lying about being pregnant when my boyfriend broke up with her for the final time), I don't find this hard to believe. However, she has resurfaced and is still saying the same thing. She's blatantly and obviously lied about things regarding my boyfriend before, so I know she isn't to be trusted, and I know when my boyfriend is lying, and I've never recognized his denials as lies, so I really want to believe him. I just wanted to get some other people's opinions on this. It's driving me insane. She won't go away, and I don't know why!!! She pretended to be my friend at the beginning of my current relationship with her ex too!

回答 (3)

2016-05-22 11:05 am
✔ 最佳答案
Imo, your boyfriend should be trying a lot more to get rid of this other girl. But as you mention "when my boyfriend broke up with her for the final time", I am assuming that means he has been back with her and breaking it off numerous times, so really it is his fault for creating this pattern with her, causing her to think that she will get her own way again if she makes a fuss about it enough. Whenever she appears, does your boyfriend respond? That is the worst thing he can do as that is giving her hope that they will get back together again. Both of you really need to ignore her and cut her out of your lives as much as possible. If she knows she isn't having an affect on you and that he definitely won't be going back to her again, she will eventually give up, but persistence is key.
2016-05-21 8:58 am
Believe in everthing
2016-05-21 9:33 am
you fool and manipulate others do u like it why do u hate to do easy kissing?

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