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When you and your best friend get together, make this vow. That the two of you will help each other appreciate yourselves. Constantly affirming each others value, encouraging each others success, supporting each others healing.
Take heart! You may be down now but allow me to tell you a short story.
Muhammad Ali was fighting Kevin Cooper in England. Floating like a butterfly, stinging like a bee. When Kevin Cooper socked him right in his jaw. Muhammad Ali goes down. Boom! Pops right back up! Goes to the corner cause the round is about to end. Comes in the next round and TKO! Kevin Cooper goes down! In the interview after the fight they asked him, "why did you get up so quick?" He replied, "Because the ground is no place for a champion!" They said, "But Kevin Cooper was the champion." He replied, "Champion is the title Kevin Cooper HAS. Champ is who I AM!"
Everyone has a champion in them. Including you. The question is, what are you the champion of? That's something everyone has to find out on their own. You have gifts, hidden talents within you, that you are meant to inspire the world with. Find those. Master them. You'll certainly feel something deep stir in your heart when you do as the purpose of life is slowly unraveled.
Change your focus. Don't just look for things that relate. Look for things that inspire. That call you deeper into yourself and the greatness within you. An easy way to do this is with the music you listen to. There are lots of positive songs in the world. Once you get past the music and other things we are lead to focus on the world expands into something fantastic and beautiful, with good and bad, rather than dark and mundane with hardly a glimmer of hope. Then you can grow to understanding life better.
A few of my favorite songs:
Vitium - Incredible (There is a reason this is listed first. You two should listen to this one together)
K-Rino - From The Sky
Dead Prez - Overstand
Bop Alloy - Lead The Followers
India Arie - Just Do You
Amanda Diva - Beautiful Things
Music is not the only thing that can inspire. Some of my favorite art:
3D Street Art
Fractal Art
Illusory Art
Back in the day, people used art to explore the way we perceive things. It had profound meaning and like with 3D art and Fractal art, entire worlds were revealed.
If you have a smart phone there are some good books you can read. One of my favorites is The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. It's a very deep and inspiring story. I was thoroughly moved by it.
There is so many things in life that can flip the mood from feeling stuck to motivated, moving, alive. I meditate. I study and constantly work on my character and growth. Training my mind. Connecting with myself, God and other areas of life. That's how you get to know yourself and how capable you are to overcome things you never thought you would. I meditate. Awakening deeper states of peace and happiness than even when I was in love years before.
There are many good and amazing things happening in the world. Somewhere in the world, 1,000,000 children got together in one place to meditate on world peace. Some young Biochemist came on TedTalks to present a gel-like substance that works with the way the body naturally heals itself to close up gaping wounds instantly. Game changing stuff! And stuff like that happens all the time. Where there is bad stuff in the world, there is also good being done about it.
More important than anything that happens outside of you. Your circumstance, interactions with people, the bad things in the world, inside you, even deeper than your own darkness, there is the champion I mentioned earlier. Able to take on life with ease and walk through the good and bad times with the same attitude. That of a champion! That is who you really are. Do your best to be yourself! Love yourself because you are more than what you don't like about you. You are greater in worth than what most people will be able to see. And even if you can't see it now, if you keep working on yourself and trying to learn and grow and heal and be that champion you, then your eyes will slowly open.