My mother got all 3 of us evicted...?

2016-05-08 8:51 pm
Out of nowhere this morning, I, my sister and my mother were pulled out of my apartment home. Then I asked her what happened. But she never answered until it was at night. She was never able to make payments on the rent after she spent a TON of $$ on my sister's sweet 16 party. We were left with a lot of leftover party food. I didn't forgive her that night and I made it clear. This was the second time she lied to me. First time was in winter of 2011, and I was in high school then.

Now I'm just filled with rage at my mother - for spending all her $$ on my sister on what she wants, while forgetting that I also go to school. And I made it very clear that she never thought of what should've been coming first ever since she and my father divorced when I was 6. I also made it clear that I will not be helping her, since she could never help ME - a son, who's more closer to getting a degree than my high school younger sister and appealing to HER party needs VERSUS my school needs **AND** what she needed to pay off FIRST. I'm only able to attend a CC, but now I CAN'T because now we have nowhere left to go. The only $$ I'm able to make is from my independent freelance tutoring. Now I have nowhere else to go....
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*pulled out of our apartment home *I didn't forgive her tonight I was angry while typing all this

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2016-05-08 10:52 pm
And your whine is what? You are a child and have no say in your sister getting a large part, have no right to be mad and need to grow the hell up.

You are beyond old enough to have a job and sounds like you never bothered and leeched off mommy


"Now I'm just filled with rage at my mother - for spending all her $$ on my sister on what she wants"

Grow up. You have no right to be mad since your mother, unlike you, has a job and made moeny therefore she can spend that money on what she wants. You are just upset mommy doesn't cater to you and doesn't buy everything you want.
2016-05-08 9:45 pm
I don't blame you for being pissed, but like others, I'm reacting to the fact that you are free to get out from under this. There are always options, even if it means temporarily shifting your priorities.

Look at group homes on craigslist. They're fun and cheap. See what it would cost to live in one and then figure out how to make it happen. Work your butt off this summer and then find a balance between part time school and part time work.

Then check out options for a bachelors degree if you want. There's a lot of loans and assistance you can get.
2016-05-09 4:20 am
Don't worry about your mother or sister. Contact friends or family or if this is not possible, try finding a homeless shelter. Then start looking for a job and just plan on getting on your feet, finding a place to stay and attend school part time.
2016-05-08 10:22 pm
talk to your college, you might get financial aid to stay in the dorms or pay the rent somewheres
2016-05-08 9:28 pm
Go to your school administrator to see if they can assist you in getting into some affordable housing for students, or financial assistance. Just leave your mom and sister to twist in the wind. You mom needs to learn how to prioritize.
2016-05-08 9:12 pm
If you were in high school in 2011, you are old enough to work now. Since you cannot count on your mother to make good decisions, you need to take control of your life independently from hers.
Apply for student loans and get a job, not just paid tutoring. Get roomies and share an apt.
A community college is a good start in academics. You can transfer to a university once you get an AA or an AS degree.
2016-05-08 9:15 pm
Ok, you can fix this! I know it sounds crazy and unlikely now, but yes, it's fixable. You have choices and since your mother doesn't seem too interested in doing right by you, you have to take the lead and either ask a friend if it's possible to stay with him/her or you can stay at a shelter until you get a room for yourself you can afford. It's not a great selection but you won't be on the street. I'm sorry this happened to you, but just because a person gets older doesn't mean they mature. And your mom was careless and did wrong by you guys, but try not to amuse your grievances because you need your strength to think clearly to make the right choice of what to do from here. Good luck and think of you, no one else right now!

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