First date tips?

2016-05-03 1:34 am
Could anyone please give me advice on:

• How to flirt with a girl
• What to talk about on a date
• How often to go on a date
• Does it matter if you're shorter than most other guys

Thanks :)

回答 (3)

2016-05-03 1:57 am
✔ 最佳答案
The last point first, because it's the simplest. It doesn't matter. It won't matter to her, it shouldn't matter to you. You should definitely not bring it up in conversation, but even if you just feel inferior and unconfident about it, she'll sense something is wrong even if she can't tell what. You have to act as if you thought you were six feet tall.

Now all the other three points have to do with how you talk to a girl. We call a conversation 'talking to' but you know it's both talking and listening. In this case, it would better be called 'listening to'. You have to -draw- a girl into a conversation, and once she gets started she'll do most of the talking.

I have observed that girls, and especially pretty girls, often feel they're not taken seriously. Guys treat them like children or like they don't have brains. Girls love to talk to a guy who really listens, who tries to understand them, who reacts appropriately ('uh huh. uh huh. And then what happened?') They think guys talk to -each other- that way. (They're wrong, but you have to see it from their point of view.)

If a girl likes talking to you she'll like the idea of spending time with you. That's what dating is about, spending time with each other to get to know each other better. At least the first few dates. Conversation on the date is just the same. "What kind of movies do you like? Did you see [recent movie]? How did you like it?" (Why are you asking her this? 8^) ).

Try to relax, otherwise you seem too 'intense'. Try to be your real self, don't try to impress her with stuff that's not true or only partly true.

If you go on a date and you like it (and she does too) you might ask her if she wants to go out again in a week. Two weeks is also acceptable. After that it depends on how much you like each other and like to see each other.
2016-05-03 1:41 am
1. Be playful/touchy with her, compliment her, etc.
2. Try to get to know her ask questions about things that interest her and just have fun
3. Depends how busy of people you are, if super busy then once or twice a month. If not I'd try for once a week or something
4. Girls only care if you're taller than her then you're good lmao
2016-05-03 1:40 am
Tell her how pretty she looks, compliment her clothes, and tell her how happy you are that she agreed to go out with you. Talk about anything that you might have in common, and ask her about her interests. Take her out once or twice a week, but not so much that she gets tired of you or thinks of you as being too clingy. The height thing is unimportant, but showing confidence is. Good luck!

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