So I have been through so much these past 5 years , I will get straight to the point. My mother passed away 5 years ago very hard thing to deal with ... After that 1 year later my best friend passed away. Crazy ! I got emotionally sick I got diagnosed with anxiety and post traumatic.
Before all this happened I got liposuction surgery. I felt good about my body and more confidence because I was very self contious about myself.
I am scheduled to have liposuction again but a little more than last time in 3 days .... I am terrified ! I am scared ! I fee like manly be its time for me to die .... Maybe it's a sin something bad is about to happen. It scares me a lot !
I talk to my mom and friend and God and say please help me give me a sign to tell me if I should do it or not .... It's scary and I'm super nervous please let me know what you think I should do !!! This will really help me out mentally and well physically. Why am I so scared ?? And getting all these bad feelings ?
PLEASE HELP ME !!! The dr put me on anti coagulants and I keep thinking what if my body or heart messes up and can't take it ??? What if this is it for me ??? I am scared !!!! A lot !!!!
But really need and want it.
Can anyone please help me out ? Any answer will be GREATLY appreciated.?
2016-05-02 8:19 am
回答 (10)
2016-05-04 2:14 pm
Seek help. A shrink or a school counsellor. Most answers on here will help you out only temporarily, but you really need professional guidance. You need someone to talk to.
2016-05-02 8:30 am
You don't REALLY need it. You just want it because you don't like yourself. Just cancel the surgery. In a year or two see how you feel. You could always reschedule it.
2016-05-03 10:28 pm
I am not sure, but it possible liposuction could cause you to have less body mass, which cheerful, beneficial thought, makes you feel better as well as live longer, while causing others to be slightly nicer to you. I would keep at the liposuction!
2016-05-03 7:09 pm
If you are scared, then why force yourself to do sth? Relax, you are going to be okay now.
2016-05-03 5:19 am
It is your anxiety making you believe everything you do will lead to your end. I am sure the liposuction is carefully done and you should be fine. If it is going to make you crazy then don't have it. Your fear of death is unwarranted. Either we go somewhere after this life or we are unaware of anything. Either one satisfies me. It is far worse to live with your finger on your pulse than to die.
2016-05-03 1:54 am
You need to stay the way you are and stop eating too much.
2016-05-02 11:57 pm
Hi! Liposuction is not just a word or a bunch of letters but a big deal. Surgery and medicines are all man-made and to human is to err. I'd recommend you to try the natural way. Control your diet and eat healthy and exercise regularly and maybe join the gym as well. You see, if the surgery goes wrong, your whole life is in misery, whereas, on the contrast, if you use natural methods, no side effects and much more benefit for your mind, heart and health. You'll be thankful later in life. Also, remember the turtle and the rabbit story wherein the turtle was slow and steady and won the race. So, be patient and determined. :)
2016-05-02 8:51 pm
You could just cancel the procedure, join a gym , hire a trainer, and learn how to control your body so the fat doesnt return and you learn how to tone your body using weights and aerobic activity instead. Also call a shrink and talk about these feelings, it sounds like you are having a Nervous Breakdown and Need a Tune Up Right Away or the car may not start 1 day soon.
2016-05-02 11:01 am
Hi I have still the same feeling when my best friend & my brother past away u best of ring up the Docters and make appointment for him go with him to the Docters and when he gets called in go in with him and tell the Docter about what he is going and then try and ask for SERTRALINE 150mg ok
2016-05-02 9:56 am
well, son, as I humbly guess you're young enough to be my son- to begin with...
it's hard to evaluate and express an opinion by '' phone medicine''...
inasmuch as possible to postpone the surgery-and consider- and I mean medically consider some other ways-pills or so- to cope with your overweight...it has to be done...
beyond this- your being still traumatised mandates highly qualified medical help -of a psychiatrist or psychologist-in real life- in your area...
may you stay forever- blessed and kept safe and proof from all harm...
it's hard to evaluate and express an opinion by '' phone medicine''...
inasmuch as possible to postpone the surgery-and consider- and I mean medically consider some other ways-pills or so- to cope with your overweight...it has to be done...
beyond this- your being still traumatised mandates highly qualified medical help -of a psychiatrist or psychologist-in real life- in your area...
may you stay forever- blessed and kept safe and proof from all harm...
參考: I am a Family Physician- living and working overseas...good health...
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