I'm from Chicago. I moved to Florida when I was 14. I'm 20 years old now, and through out the years I've been here, I've had times where I was so home sick...like I am now. Speaking to Grandma and my Mother, they told me that this is normal...almost everyone in Florida is from another state, and after awhile, most start to get homesick. They describe it as a "transit" state, and as one big vacation with crazier people. Anyway, I'm missing Chicago, I'm missing the big city and window shopping, the winter and wearing my high fashion coats lol, I miss my cousin who is like my big sister (even though I have love for my cousins here in florida too), and I just want change...I'm not a girl, not yet a woman. I'm even highly considering pursuing Modeling and Fashion again while I go to college before entering medical school, but my area in central Florida has no opportunity for Fashion and modeling like the major cities do. I do have my Father here, my brother, my cousin who is like my sister, and even a guy that I have developed feelings for (even though we're not dating), but in Chicago, I have my moms side of the family, and my mom will soon be joining out there.
I guess I need some advice from someone who has been in this similar situation in Florida, and then getting home sick. Did you move? Was it for the better? How homesick did you get?
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@backahead Thank you so much for answering. However, I don't believe that there is anything in life that is completely out of our control, especially choosing where we want to live.
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Thank you all for answering. It's so frustrating to decide, but I think it's just apart of being 20 years old and finding my way in life lol.