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"not at this time" well she is going in one week and we said yes she could go even though she only gets her every other weekend ( I think we are being nice by giving her this extra time) well she told us it was too late and she asked months ago and did not make plans to have her go with them and the budget is spent now. I think she is being a big b**ch by doing this, she also told us she wouldnt want the drama and didn't want to have to monitor everything they say or do for "fear" it would get twisted around and more drama from us. So now her daughter who lives with us is mad at us and her mother but we never said "no" exactly we said not at this time, I feel like her mother should not have gone and made plans like this without including her. Do you agree?
I mean what kind of parent would do that, we said "NOT AT THIS TIME" not no never. If anyone wants to start drama it is her by not including her child!
I dont see why she cant add her own child into their vacation now, it is that much extra and I know they dont have as much money as we do but really it is not much more!
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She also said since we have never in the past let her go on vacations with her, she did exactly expect to be allowed to this time as well but asked to be courteous. I don't think she should go on vacations without her child. Her child is on her facebook and her mother post pictures of all their vacations and I think this is very wrong.