Terrified of spiders HELP?

2016-04-26 4:19 am
there's three daddy long legs in my room, and one is right next to my outlet between my wall and my bed. There's only enough space to put my charger down there so my bed is right up against the wall. My mom and step dad aren't helping me, and my step dad is just being a huge jerk about it. I'm sobbing and I can't sleep. I can't crush them because I don't even like being near them. Please help!!

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2016-04-26 6:51 am
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Well, I guess you know your fear is just irrational. What that means is the fear is just in your mind, like brainwashing yourself into fearing them.
Now the crane flies(daddy longlegs with wings) Are totally harmless, totally. They don't bite, they don't sting, they don't even eat. Now they are attracted to light, if you turn the lights off in your room, with a light going in the hallway, they will soon go out there, let them pester your step dad for a while.
The little long legged web making spiders are also totally harmless. their worst is making a web in a corner.
According to my mother, I was playing with those before I could walk. I have one under the bathroom sink I named Clyde.(really a her) and Bonny, another lives by the front door. I just ignore them.
Now Anonymous was a bit coarse, but really, that is how it is. Your problem is not spiders, it is your fear.
Do something about that, and spiders will never be a problem.
If you just cant shoo the leggy critter away from the power outlet, you will only suffer.
Spiders and flying insects have been on earth millions of years before man, and be here long after man is gone.
We are in their world, so getting attuned to nature is a good choice.
We can't solve your problem, but you can, ask your parents about therapy to get rid of your fear.
(have you even thought of a broom?)
參考: Been around spiders 50 years.
2016-04-26 4:37 am
An irrational fear is still a fear. Still, you have to learn to deal with the spiders of your life.
My mother was the kind of woman who would cry and wait for someone to rescue her. I deal with my problems myself. I refuse to let fear rule my life or to make my choices for me.
It is the choices that you make that will determine what kind of person you will be all your life. Either deal with Daddy Long Legs yourself or sit there and cry. Your choice.
2016-04-26 4:30 am
good news:
-daddy long legs / mosquito hawks eat OTHER spiders (you probably knew that but)
-they don't bite

try getting a jar or an empty glass/can, put in on the wall (not completely, have some space), then get a piece of paper, slide it between the jar and wall, then close the gap. take em' outside and shake them off. no need to be worried of them. they got spiders in their bodies though. if you're too scared, put on a huge coat and some hat that covers your face so you don't inhale their spider corpses. good luck!!!!!!! DONT KILL THEM THOUGH PLEASE OR YOUR HOUSE WILL HAVE MORE SPIDERS. LITERALLY. DADDY LONG LEGS EAT EAT EAT SPIDERS
2016-04-26 5:00 am
Find WD40 in the garage. That kills them in 5 seconds. Clean up your room and get fresh air in every morning. Buy a small vacuum cleaner and suck some wd40 in after you suck in a spider.

I hate them too.
Ugly overrated basterds they are .
2016-04-26 4:20 am
See a shrink

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