"it seems to me that most women can go without masturbation i mean you never see teenage girls busy in the bathroom,its always the boy who gets up to things like that,and i never hear of girls masturating if raely,most guys cant go without masturbating for 2 days? girls how do you manage?"
I, personally, can go without masturbation, because I have very satisfying sex every other day and don't feel the need to masturbate. Now, if I didn't have a partner for sex, I'd probably masturbate. Every woman's sex drive is different. I don't think you can generalize by saying 'women' for all of us.
Here is the research from Alfred Kinsey:
Masturbation
Males:
92% of males reported that they had masturbated (p. 499, Male).
Females:
62% of females reported that they had masturbated (p. 142, Female).
45% of females who reported having masturbated indicated that they could reach orgasm within 3 minutes (p. 163, Female).
Masturbation techniques reported by females:
84% used clitoral and labial manipulation
20% used vaginal insertion
11% used breast stimulation
10% used thigh pressure
5% muscular tension
2% had fantasy alone to reach orgasm; and
11% used other techniques (p. 189, Female)
Masturbation was the most important sexual outlet for single females and the second most important sexual outlet for married females, providing: 7-10% of orgasms for those 16-40 (p. 525, 532, Female). In males, masturbation after marriage occurred with reduced frequency (p. 507, Male).
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/research/ak-data.html#masturbation
Trust me. The girls you know are masturbating. They are masturbating because they:
a. don't want to get pregnant;
b. haven't found a boyfriend yet they want to have sex with;
c. aren't attached/attracted enough to a boy they might be seeing
I agree with Robert X. I think it is still more socially acceptable for boys/men to admit that they masturbate. Along those lines, surveys have also shown that females also are more likely to lie about how many sexual partners they have had.