How can I tell my parents I don t want to hang out with friends because they make jokes about my sister?
I m 15 and I m on April vacation and that means no school for a week, it s now Wednesday and my dad keeps asking me why don t I hang out with my friends? And I tell him, I don t hang out with my friends at school because they make jokes about my 16 year old sister because she dated a freshmen that use to be my friend, but not anymore and I tell him that I don t want to hang out with them because they make jokes about my sister, and he said he s going to call a program for kids who have trouble making friends, and I told him not to do that but he s going to do it anyway, is there anything I can do besides hanging out with my friends and prevent him from calling the program for kids who have trouble making friends, I need help!
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Sounds like your dad doesn't believe you...maybe your sister can tell him how you feel or maybe you can tell your mom and have her tell him. However, I do agree with you I wouldn't want to hangout with my friends either if they do things like that for a laugh at my expense. Those are not good friends. With that being said, you could explain to your friends how you feel (maybe they don't know it bothers you this much) and if they're good friends they will apologize and you can become better friends and hangout with them and your dad won't need to call the program.
Your father is insensitive. For him to condone that you hang out with people who disrespect your sister is disturbing. Fake it. Tell him you are going out with friends and go hang out at the library and read about an interesting topic or waste time on the internet.
If he does call that place, tell them that you do have plenty of friends but they are making fun of your sister, so you will be making new friends at school when April vacation is over.
Why not being that now? Why not call someone or facebook someone who you think would be a good candidate to be your friend?
Your reasons for not hanging out are really lame
stand up for your sister and move past it
you are missing out on doing things with friends over a little bit of leg pulling
you cannot go through life being THIS sensitive
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