How to tell my boyfriend about this?
2016-04-18 8:19 pm
My boyfriend has been at Boot Camp to become a Marine since January. A lot has happened since he's been gone..including the death of a close friend of ours. He doesn't know about her passing and I'm going to be the one to tell him. I'm seeing him this week at his graduation and I'm so excited!!! But not excited to tell him what happened..how do I do it? What do I say? When do you think is the right time? I don't want to ruin his graduation day with bad news. Please help :(
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2016-04-18 8:35 pm
I would tell him after his graduation when he is in a stress free and relaxing environment, such as going out to eat. When you are eating you could tell him what has been happening with your life, and then calmly tell him that the friend died as well. I know it's hard to tell someone you love bad news, but he will be glad you did so he can grieve properly. If you never tell him, he could end up finding out in a bad way a long time later when he thought that friend was alive. Good luck, God bless. I'm really sorry about your loss :(
2016-04-18 8:43 pm
I would enjoy the ceremony and let him have his moment without dumping all over him.
later on..........if you go out to eat........or during a quieter, less public, calmer moment..........when it's just the two of you............tell him you have some bad news to relay.
later on..........if you go out to eat........or during a quieter, less public, calmer moment..........when it's just the two of you............tell him you have some bad news to relay.
2016-04-18 8:33 pm
You need to tell him right away, as soon as you see him.
If you don't, he'll hear it from someone else as soon as he starts calling all his friends that afternoon.
If you don't, he'll hear it from someone else as soon as he starts calling all his friends that afternoon.
2016-04-18 8:23 pm
He deserves to know. He will be more angry if you don't tell him.
2016-04-18 8:32 pm
Best time is after sex.
2016-04-18 8:28 pm
Tell him to stand at attention and call his name to the front then call his friends name and follow on by stating his friends name DOB and cause of seat. Nice military touch to it
2016-04-18 8:20 pm
Tell him on the phone or graduation day...man up.
Dislking my answer won't help *****.
Dislking my answer won't help *****.
2016-04-19 4:08 pm
Contact the Base Chaplain's office and they may be able to assist you with a private room with a chaplain available to console bf and you. Good luck.....................
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