Can you help me?
2016-04-16 6:27 am
I'm fourteen years old and I haven't had a boyfriend or kissed a boy. I've been extremely lonely for the past few years because I see all of my friends with boyfriends or girlfriends, but I have no one. I used to be pretty confident, but since last year, I've lost it all. I'm not happy with myself. I feel like I'm not good enough. I don't see myself as pretty, so I wear makeup and do other things to make me prettier, but nothing works. I've been told I'm pretty, but what's the point if I don't feel pretty? (I hope that makes sense.) I've been very indignant lately. It's unfair that these unfaithful, disgusting people can be happy while I'm over suffering. I've been waiting fourteen years. I know that I'm young, I wouldn't have a problem with this if everyone else wasn't in a relationship (especially the guys that I like.) And that's another thing, I'm not into guys like that, I care a lot about my education. So when I like a guy, it's a HUGE deal. And I've only liked three guys my entire life. And none of them ever liked me. There's this part of me that's not allowing me to be happy. Please don't say that I still have a life ahead and that I should wait until the right boy comes along because I've heard that one too many times. It's annoying. I don't want to wait. I'm tired of being alone. I'm sorry if this sounds like a rant. Anyway, I've attempted suicide because I'm lonely, and I can't exactly talk to anyone in my family, or at my school, about this. Please help me!
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2016-04-16 8:38 pm
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Hi.. the truth is boyfriends don't fall from the sky and neither does mutual attraction. There are many times in our lives we find ourselves attracted to someone but they don't feel the same. REAL attraction is all about human sex pheromones (G00gle it). Just taking on any old guy for a boyfriend is about desparation, about ending up disgusted and miserable (because who in her right mind wants to kiss a guy we are not attracted to? I sure don't).Just like you have been told, you will meet someone who feels attraction toward you and you will feel attraction back. This stuff usually happens when we least expect it. It always seems to be a surprise.
Hon don't attempt suicide because you're lonely. . I'm lonely a lot of the time, i'm single (an adult woman) I have been single for years. I have discovered that, if I am not content with ME and happy with myself generally, then other people will see it clearly and avoid me. Believe me, i know a number of people who are "sad sack" "woe-is-me" types. They need to boost their sense of Gratitude, Self-compassion. (both of these can be found online). Working on ourselves and toward self-satisfaction and happiness with our own company is critical. And self-improvement is for everyone
There is also a great deal of information online for Self-Esteem Self-Help.
Not having a boyfriend isn't your main issue. I think you're struggling with other problems you haven't mentioned. Maybe talk to your guidance counselor at school?
Be GOOD to yourself. That boyfriend will come along. And when he does, remember, HE can NOT make you happy. That's up to you
2016-04-16 1:35 pm
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