We were friends for three years, and I came to realise who she really is. I have talked to her openly about the way her words have hurt me, and she understood me and said sorry. Did it again though, and I just dont feel like shes my best friend anymore. We were nearly sisters, but appearantly her point of view about life isnt alike at all to mine, and thats where it cant click between us, and not to mention how selfish she can be. She told me the things a friend wouldnt say.I know we all have flaws and I should get along with hers and accept them and love her for who she is, but if she doesnt really support my, own flaws, nor does truely care about me or love me, then while still keep on trying to hold on to something when theres nothing really left?
So, my birthday passed by and she made me this box filled in with our pictures together, a little perfume of hers & some earrings. Anyhow, I cant keep on holding on to her when she s not the one I knew on our freshman year. We re about to graduate in a month, her birthday s on June, I dont know what kind of a birthday gift I should offer her, not buy obviously, and still be as a goodbye message. I thought about a bucket list album, filled in with inspirational pictures, though in between a quote that says it all at once, in a way. Help?
What kind of a gift should I bring to my so-fake-friend on her birthday before saying a goodbye?
2016-04-14 11:27 pm
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2016-04-14 11:35 pm
2016-04-14 11:31 pm
She may be fake, but you are obviously genuine.
Be your genuine self, and give her one more chance to see how a real friend acts.
By buying a good gift, not necessarily personal, because the mementos represent reality and truth.
The bought gift is just another person, and can send the break up or good bye message.
Loud and clear.
Don't be toxic like her, but keep genuine and above the fray, what makes you different to her, will carry you through life.
Free yourself from hate or disappointment and hurt, and forgive her in your mind, and move on--
Don't overthink this and don't spend a dime on a nickel problem--it is not worth the headache--and will help lighten your life.
Congratulations though on your graduation.
Be your genuine self, and give her one more chance to see how a real friend acts.
By buying a good gift, not necessarily personal, because the mementos represent reality and truth.
The bought gift is just another person, and can send the break up or good bye message.
Loud and clear.
Don't be toxic like her, but keep genuine and above the fray, what makes you different to her, will carry you through life.
Free yourself from hate or disappointment and hurt, and forgive her in your mind, and move on--
Don't overthink this and don't spend a dime on a nickel problem--it is not worth the headache--and will help lighten your life.
Congratulations though on your graduation.
2016-04-14 11:27 pm
A fake fish finger
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