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First of all, never allow anyone to blackmail you.
Did you show your parents your ruined dress? That would have been proof of your sister's behavior.
Take it as a given that she is a liar. When she tells you something, ask if this is just another of her lies. You know she is a liar and cannot be trusted. Say it calmly as a matter of fact.
Where were your parents at 1 am that they could not hear a TV turned up that loud? Keep phone numbers written down somewhere and hide the paper the numbers are on. Tape it under the drawers in your room, place it behind a picture frame, or put it at page 100 in a book like a Bible.
Tell her that, if she expects you to help her with anything, her behavior to you must be kind and respectful. If it is not, you will not help her or speak to her. As far as you are concerned, she is not your sister until her behavior improves.