My 7-year old sister is driving me nuts!?

2016-04-06 10:58 pm
I am 12 and my little sister is 7. She is sweet and caring, but sometimes she acts really bratty. Last month I bought a new dress that I was going to wear for my best friend's party, and my little sis completely destroyed it! I was in the shower and when I came out she was in the living room eating a yogurt.. With MY dress on!! She stained my whole dress and I had to wear some old clothes for my friend's party.. We were supposed to be matching dresses. She was wearing a blue one and I was wearing a red one. Both with the same design:(. Then the other day she told me a friend had come to visit me and so I got out. When I realized she lied, she had locked all the doors and windows. It was hot outside. It was about 90* F. An hour later my sister opened a window. When I got inside she had my phone in her hands. She said that If I told my parents she had locked the house, she would restart my entire phone, so I didn't told my parents anything. I mean, I have my cousin's and friends' numbers that live far away. Lastnight she woke me up like at1 am to help her with her honework. I was furious. I helped her and then when I got to bed she wouldn't turn down the volume of the TV. I am really tired. I tried telling my parents but my sis acts like a goody two shoes and they don't believe me. Should I yell at her? Should I somehow stop her from doing that? What?

回答 (4)

2016-04-06 11:18 pm
✔ 最佳答案
First of all, never allow anyone to blackmail you.
Did you show your parents your ruined dress? That would have been proof of your sister's behavior.
Take it as a given that she is a liar. When she tells you something, ask if this is just another of her lies. You know she is a liar and cannot be trusted. Say it calmly as a matter of fact.
Where were your parents at 1 am that they could not hear a TV turned up that loud? Keep phone numbers written down somewhere and hide the paper the numbers are on. Tape it under the drawers in your room, place it behind a picture frame, or put it at page 100 in a book like a Bible.
Tell her that, if she expects you to help her with anything, her behavior to you must be kind and respectful. If it is not, you will not help her or speak to her. As far as you are concerned, she is not your sister until her behavior improves.
2016-04-06 11:08 pm
Start crying, and show them this entire thing you just wrote. They'll believe you. Say "since you don't believe me, I needed help from people I don't even know"
2016-04-06 11:51 pm
talk to your parents about it anyways and let them deal with her since theyre the ones that made your sister after all
2016-04-06 11:08 pm
There isn't much you can do. Have a heart to heard conversation with her. No yelling or pointing fingers or sounding annoyed. But that's just the age it'll pass eventually.

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