Hi,
3 months ago me and my girlfriend (never dated anyone before, I m 22) had an argument. I was upset that she was going away for the summer for 6 weeks, as in term time when she s at university we don t get to see each other much. She got upset that I got upset and the argument escalated. I told her I was upset because I like being with her and I wanted to do more things and improve our relationship.
We made up. However, today after some further arguments her saying I don t make any effort, when I ve spent over £500 on her and her family, I went to her brothers birthday despite not knowing anyone and being the only black person there and being asked loads of questions by her family. She also didn t appreciate I sent her flowers on Valentine s Day despite having a terrible week with my grandma passing away, I was still thinking about her. On Saturday after we had finished sex, she asked me about the death of my dad and also complained I didn t see her when she s at uni. I got upset. All this lead to her feeling we aren t compatible. I feel sad as I ve shared so much with her and I m a private person.
What would you do ?