Before I go ahead with my problem. I really want you to be understand because I am not being pathetic or stupid. I think I have a serious problem. OK, me and my boyfriend split up for a day. and I THOUGHT about mailing someone else who I had previously been out with before.
It happened in January and I still think about it everyday. It stared with feeling guilty, then going over and over the situation in my head. It s really putting me down. Almost to the point where I can live with the continuous thought. I sometimes avoid seeing my boyfriend because I feel that guilty.
I also have no feeling towards this person. but its really bothering me. I feel awful PLEASE HELP.
PLEASE HELP!? ANXIETY, DEPRESSION TELL ME? I HAVE BEEN THINKING THE SAME THING FOR 2 MONTHS?
2016-04-01 4:09 pm
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2016-04-01 4:53 pm
✔ 最佳答案
We all have thoughts.... whether we act on them is up to us. You are probably not as into your boyfriend as you think or as you'd like to be. Maybe consider the relationship you're in and if it's not for you, then leave it. If you think it is, then stay.
It's very common to be attracted to another person while we are in a relationship.... but it doesn't mean that this other person is compatible with us, or would be a good partner.
So, this is food for thought.
Meanwhile no sense being all anxious and depressed over something which is completely out of your control. Because feeling attracted to someone is not something we can not control, but we do get past it eventually.
And guilty? What crime did you commit? No crime at all. Guilt is for criminals and you're not one.
2016-04-01 4:18 pm
The fact that you seriously considered it, suggests you have uncertainties.
If you are back with him, put the past behind you and work on what you have before you lose it
If you are back with him, put the past behind you and work on what you have before you lose it
2016-04-01 4:11 pm
owe brother you must be a teenager with this question.
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