So my best friend met this girl from another school for basketball and they were on the same team this year. they met a couple of months ago and now they are always hanging out and when I ask my friend to hang out with me she says she has plans with the other girl. we've been best friends since kindergarten and now we're almost freshman and they barely just met. She's even calling the girl her best friend too and I also feel like she's a bad influence on my friend and she's getting her into bad habits. I don't know what to do bc I don't wanna lose my best friend after so many years. I just don't wanna be replaced and lose her.
-oh and we were planning to go to my friends cabin for like a month, and then she cancelled on me and she's there now and I found out that she's with the other girl and that makes me really mad and upset:(
so if anybody could help me or tell me what to do that would be great, thanks so much:)
I think My best friend is replacing me with someone that she just met, and this girl is a bad influence?
2016-03-29 6:37 pm
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2016-03-29 9:01 pm
You need to find something else to do.. this situation of yours is all about jealousy that your friend has made a new friend, as well as having you as a friend. You're going to have to get used to this.... Your friend isn't being mean to you at all -- she has found someone who also shares interests with her, she is expanding her social horizons and it's what people do.
People walk into and out of our lives all of our lives. It's the way of life. Some stay a while, some stay in our lives forever, others keep walking.
I had some excellent friends in school and two were very dear friends to me. We all eventually went our separate ways, but i graduated from high school forty years ago, and i still communicate with my two very dear friends from time to time. I now live 2000 miles from them, so we haven't seen each other in a while; however, those friendships have lasted almost all my life.
You aren't being "lost" or replaced. But maybe it's time for you to expand your own social horizons, too? Nothing wrong with that.
take care of YOU.... there is no sense in worrying about things we can not change. But we can always experience new things in life. Try it!
People walk into and out of our lives all of our lives. It's the way of life. Some stay a while, some stay in our lives forever, others keep walking.
I had some excellent friends in school and two were very dear friends to me. We all eventually went our separate ways, but i graduated from high school forty years ago, and i still communicate with my two very dear friends from time to time. I now live 2000 miles from them, so we haven't seen each other in a while; however, those friendships have lasted almost all my life.
You aren't being "lost" or replaced. But maybe it's time for you to expand your own social horizons, too? Nothing wrong with that.
take care of YOU.... there is no sense in worrying about things we can not change. But we can always experience new things in life. Try it!
2016-03-29 7:09 pm
Sadly there isn't anything you can do. If she has found a new friend who replaces you, you just have to accept it and move on with your life.
It really is that simple even if it may seem hard.a Your friend will do shouldn't think or worry about it
It really is that simple even if it may seem hard.a Your friend will do shouldn't think or worry about it
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