How can I get back at my ex best friend without looking like a terrible person?

1.Try not doing anything. Don't talk to her, don't talk to those who accuse you of anything. If she's doing this for attention, you not doing anything will make her burn inside. I know this isn't your intention (If it is, even better!) but it might make her realize there was not doing anything.

2. Don't defend yourself. If you have nothing, say nothing. You don't have to explain yourself. Obviously she's in for drama, so just say nothing.

3. Small talk. Your laughing or talking with her will definitely make her think about herself and realize your not a bad person. Try going up to her and starting off a conversation, totally unrelated to the drama, maybe a compliment. If she says "Why are you talking to me?" or something, just walk away, without sighing or rolling your eyes or anything, to show her, hey, that was waste of time anyway. She's gonna hate that she missed out on a heated convo u two could have had.

4. Make new friends. I know you don't even want to go there, and it seems as though everyone is against you. Just find the most trusting person, and be the best you are. You'll be surprised at how things escalate, and your friend will see this and miss the old times.

Now the brutal reality. There is a 75% chance she's gone. I'm sorry, since you said you've been friends for 5 years. I always goes this way. Use will power and resist the urge to want to be friends again. Give yourself time to get used to the new reality.

And listen. No one. NO ONE has ANY RIGHT to be saying the things behind your back, and get to be friends with you. You are SO MUCH BETTER THAN ANYTHING ANYONE HAS TO SAY. There is so much more after high school, you have NO IDEA. Be strong hon. Good luck



PS: Things might work out on their own.

So, you want to change rummer into fact . Just be a good person and in the end good things will come to you . " DON'T TURN TO THE DARK SIDE " . A little humor at the end to lighten things up .

You should be the better person and not seek revenge. Seeking revenge makes you no better than the person who caused you pain.

YOu want to publicly humiliate her? Well, guess what? That might backfire, and people think you're a terrible now, becuase of the things she's said about you, they will surely believe with no doubt that you're ***** if you try to get back at her with witnesses.

Face it, this is life. There will be some people in your life that will be the worst thing possible, but you can't always respond with a plot of revenge every time. You be done with them and move away from them as much as possible. If anything, she's probably extremely jealous of you, that's why she's focused so much negative energy on you. But she'll grow up on one day, and she's going to look back and realize how evil she was. Guilt is hard to live with, and it's waiting for her.