LDR won't FaceTime me or video chat me?

2016-03-22 5:59 pm
Hi I've been in a long distance relationship with this girl for 6 months and she refuses to FaceTime me we always speak on the phone but she never wants to FaceTime me I told her why and she said she doesn't want to till its guaranteed we meet like wtf that sounds so ******* foolish to me and I'm so upset about this like ugh she rarely shows me her face and when she does its 1/2 of her face on snapchat I doubt she's a catfish but it's so frustrating and upsetting that she's doing this I asked her what are you insecure and she says it's not that and that she doesn't know what it is but it's not fair to me and I've been trying to talking her about this since November 2015 and she says she will but never does now March 2016 I talked to her about clearly and she responded the same way for 4 hours this morning I told her I needed space
Am I wrong for this? I love her and I don't want to hurt her but for ***** sake ugh

回答 (6)

2016-03-22 7:15 pm
Why on earth are you in a LDR? Really, all it adds up to is some huge fantasy. And you'll likely never meet unless you have the resources to do so.

Most people who are in long distance relationships, then meet at one point are almost always disappointed and the person they meet is not who they envisioned whatsoever. How do i know? There was a survey taken of almost 300 people who were in LDRs.... 90% of them said it was all a bust when they met.

Live in the real world. Reality DOES exist!
2016-03-22 6:51 pm
She's catfishing you bro. She's not the person she says she is. She probably stole any pictures you've seen of her from someone else and she's passing them off as her.
2016-03-22 6:12 pm
Ok. This question has lead me to think that you two actually haven't meet, but could be also fraud. I don't want to sound judgmental or insensitive but most of the time when someone meets another person online and refuses to show their face, its usually stranger danger. Yes you have spoken to her on the phone, and she could have a insecurity problem, but as you never met her in person, you don't know what could happen in closed doors. It does sound suspicious though you didn't say how old you both were, and what country. If its someone of a really young age around 13-14, this could not work out if she lives overseas. Be careful and think all of these through before you decide to make a decision
2016-03-22 6:02 pm
Sounds like you're being catfished bro
2016-03-22 6:01 pm
countdown to break-up :)
2016-03-22 6:00 pm
You "told her why..."

If she doesn't want to face time you then she is not what she seems. Proceed at your own risk.

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