Did I scare her away? What is the best way to handle this situation?

This woman I am talking to she was sharing with me a bad past experience with her ex how she was very physically abused and how she almost died and I shared with her some bad experiences I went through and one of them was something relatable to her current situation and one of her replys was that she told me that's scary and that's the reason why she wants to change her name.and where she lives so she doesn't have to look over her shoulder often. I tried telling her to not over react and not allow it to control her life and I haven't gotten a response ever since last night. We have only been talking for a few days. Did I ruin my chances of talking to her by scaring her away with my past? What is the best way to handle this cause I do like her..