Would it be safe to let my boyfriend finish inside of me?

2016-03-06 4:58 pm
I ve been on birth control for 3 years now with one 2 month break but I ve been consistently taking it for 4 months again. I started taking it for period regulation.
Due to our poor sexual education system, I never learned in high school when it s safe for a guy to finish inside of you.
My current boyfriend is the only guy I ve had sex with and I wanted to know if it would be safe for him to finish inside of me just relying on my birth control. I ve read that yes take it everyday, same time, 1 out of 100 will get pregnant doing this Bla Bla but I ve read to wait a week before having sex without a condom but also that it s safe right away. So I m just a bit confused.
Today is the last day of my period and I started my new pack last night. If he and I have sex tonight and he finished inside of me, under these circumstances, would it be safe or should I have him pull-out too as usual?

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2016-03-06 5:26 pm
Define what you mean by safe.

1. Pregnancy risk.

If you're using birth control this will reduce pregnancy risk - you don't state what form of birth control you're using but I'm going to assume the combination pill which is 99.7% effective with perfect use. For the record it is biologically impossible for hormonal birth control to regulate periods (a regular withdrawal bleed on the pill is in no way the same as a regular period) - it's very important you know how your birth control method of choice works.

If you feel safe enough to rely on the combination pill alone then yes you can allow your partner to ejaculate inside you, but do know that the combination pill used along with withdrawal (pulling out before he ejaculates, and urinating after ejaculation so no risk of sperm in pre-ejaculate) that is then 99.98% effective with perfect use.

It's also important you know how to use emergency birth control if needed, although the combination pill protects you it may be that you don't realize util after you've had sex that you've forgotten a pill and in that case you'd need to know where to get emergency contraception like Plan B and how to take it to reduce pregnancy risk.

Birth Control Bingo: The Combination Pill - http://www.scarleteen.com/birth_control_bingo_the_combination_pill
Emergency Contraception - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/abuse_assault/emergency_contraception

2. STI/STD's and general infections.

Condoms and other barriers are always a good idea to stay safe, or at least reduce risk.

Remember even with regular STI/STD screening remember that there is no test for HPV in men, some STI/STD's take time to show in tests, some STI/STD's can be contracted by means other than sex, people cheat, and general infections such as yeast infections or urinary tract infections can be passed between partners via sex.

After Contraception or Commitment, Why You Still Gotta Rock Safer Sex - http://www.scarleteen.com/blog/heather_corinna/2013/02/18/after_contraception_or_commitment_why_you_still_gotta_rock_safer_sex

It's all about risk assessment - understanding your risks and reducing those risks. You have to decide if you trust your method of birth control and your partner enough to go without condoms or withdrawal.
2016-03-06 5:49 pm
School isn't the only place to learn sex education, if having sex you should be mature and responsible enough to learn for yourself from other sources, this isn't obscure information but basic sex education you can find anywhere!

Your question is 'Can he come inside me if I'm on birth control?'...isn't that answer obvious? The reason people use birth control is to prevent pregnancy! As long as you're using your birth control correctly you're protected from pregnancy, depending on your method there is still a risk but you should already know how high that risk is and whether you trust that birth control alone. Condoms also prevent sexually transmitted infections too.
2016-03-06 5:00 pm
Dear God the ignorance of girls these days.
The Pill stops Ovulation which is why you cannot get pregnant, the failure rate is so minimal its not worth quoting.
You do not need a condom, you are protected for the 4 weeks.
2016-03-06 5:12 pm
It is safe as you wont ovulate while on the pill and he already pulls out so sperm are still being released so to let him come inside you is as safe as him pulling out
2016-03-07 10:07 pm
HELL YES, LET HIM BLOW HIS LOAD INSIDE OF YOU !!!
2016-03-07 2:34 am
Two things, in answer to your question:
(1) It is not necessary for you take a pill at the EXACT same time every day. All you have to do is remember to take one pill during each 24-hour period - it doesn't matter what time of day or night you take it.
(2) When you are on the birth control pill, your boyfriend can "come inside you" anytime you & he want him to, and it is not necessary to ever use a condom or the "pull-out method" for the prevention of pregnancy. You can have sex any time you wish to, any way you wish to. That is one of the reasons why you take the pill. When you are taking the pill regularly (as you have been doing), the pill will prevent ovulation from ever happening. Because you never ovulate (at any time during the month), you CANNOT get pregnant. The pill (just by itself) is over 99.9% effective at preventing pregnancy.

I used birth control pills as my ONLY method of preventing pregnancy for over 30 years. In all that time, I never got pregnant, nor did I ever have any occasion to even THINK I might be pregnant.
參考: Experience, & BIL is an OB/GYN & sister is an RN
2016-03-06 10:24 pm
Some of these people are clearly ignorant and won't actually answer your question.
Yes, you will be okay to have sex with him. And as by risks oviously you mean pregnancy, as he is your only sexual partner. And if he doesn't have any STI's then it's okay for him to ejaculate in you. Aslong as you take your pill as normal.
Pre-ejaculate is something that happens before the final climax ejaculation, the final one is usually what will make a woman pregnant. The pre-ejaculate very rarely will make a woman pregnant but it can happen.
If I were you, I would have sex but preferably half way through sex, have him out on a condom. But if u are wanting to have bare sex, use spermicides, these are lubes that help kill sperm and can be bought cheap. Spermicides alone are not very reliable, but as you are using it Aswell with the birth control pill, you should be okay and the risk of pregnancy is very low.
Have fun :)
2016-03-07 7:14 pm
The pill is very reliable but not perfect - nothing is. A lot of people rely on the pill alone for years and dont get pregnant. If you want a second layer of protection without using condoms or pulling out why not put in some spermicide before having sex.
2016-03-06 8:49 pm
Should be okay
2016-03-06 8:07 pm
No idea
2016-03-06 5:51 pm
thats the reason for birth control
2016-03-06 5:00 pm
first of all, make sure both of you have been checked to make sure neither of you have any hidden sti's and obviously the risk with 1 in 100 is still going to be there, but if you've been on the pill for a while and want to not use a condom then you can take the chances you know
2016-03-08 3:37 am
PULL OUT. Just because your on your period does not mean you can't get pregnant or catch a serious disease. It only take 1 second to make a baby. If you enjoy your sleep and dont want to get pregnant I suggest you use both condom and birth control.
2016-03-08 1:20 pm
You should check with your doctor to see how safe it would be to let your boyfriend come in you when having sexual intercourse while your are on birth control pills. My wife never got pregnant when she was on the pill and I didn't use anything and finished in her.
2016-03-08 10:17 am
no
2016-03-07 11:47 pm
i would but please if you get pregnant do not get an abortion!
2016-03-07 10:06 pm
Nothing is 100 percent! Especially contraceptives. If I were you, I'd take the pill and have him use a condom. But condoms break and contraceptives fail. You're best bet is to assume you will get pregnant since that is the worst case scenario and be prepared to carry a baby if you do get pregnant.
2016-03-07 4:25 pm
if you have pills correctly as per instructions you will be quite safe and you can let your bf finish in side.
2016-03-07 4:09 am
yes you will be fine. its the best feeling ever so let him do it
2016-03-07 5:50 pm
First it's 99.9% certain your birth control will protect form pregnancy. Second, you need to also know that there is no ovulation going on at all between 3-4 days prior to and up to 3-4 days after your period, so there;'s no chance you'd get pregnant that close to your period anyways. Ovulation really gets critical the closer you get to the middle of your menstrual cycle when it is peaking and chances are great you can get pregnant if not protected by some sort of birth control. That;'s usually the time when birth control might not work, but rarely. Between day 13-18 after you stop your period is the height of ovulation.
2016-03-07 3:43 am
Yes! Let him finish inside of you. You're so sweet :)
2016-03-06 5:00 pm
there is always a chance of pregnancy as you read so if you don't want to be pregnant have him use a condom also.
2016-03-06 5:04 pm
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